2 Relevant??: Org churches to tackle Sex on Sunday - Page 4

POWERUP · #31 01-30-2009, 08:40 AM

I'll never forget what my Grandfather said one night, while preaching. Now keep in mind, he served on the Mississippi District Board for many years. He said, There is 2 things the church never wants to talk about in Church. Money and Sex. And whether you want to admit it or not,It takes them both to survive! You know I'm telling the truth. My Grandmother just grinned.

But, he would have taught on this subject on Wed. Night.

MissBrattified · #32 01-30-2009, 08:50 AM

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The fact that we are even asking if sex is ok to teach just demonstrates how bad of shape the church is in. I do agree that it is kind of gimmicky especially since it seems like everyone is doing it lately.

It is okay to teach adult classes on sex, and depending on the content, people should only attend if they're comfortable with the subject matter. However, Sunday mornings are traditionally a time for visitors and children to be present, so I'm not sure it's the most appropriate venue.

IMO, part of the problem with sexual relationships today is the lack of sacredness surrounding the act. When we drag it all out into the open, it takes away some of the sanctity from the married bed. JMO. I am NOT opposed to teaching about relationships from a godly perspective, which is why I would like to know ahead of time what the content is, but some things should only be addressed to adults, and SOME topics would be inappropriate in a setting with both men and women present.

I'm no prude, DG, but just because the world has made sex casual doesn't mean the church should.

As for Dr. Dobson...there was some book he wrote that included all the details of sex in text (no pictures), and that was the extent of my sex ed about a week before I was married. Jeff and I made a conscious decision to make sure our children were better educated than we were.

Just generally speaking, I agree with Randy Wayne: There are some people I wouldn't WANT talking to my children about sex--even if they had their Bible in hand. I remember VIVIDLY an incident with a friend of mine and her mother. We were out walking with her Mom, (we were both 15 or 16ish), and sex was brought up. I don't remember how the topic was initiated, but I do remember the Mom's response. She said to us, "Sex is something you tolerate. Only wh***s enjoy it." And that was the end of the discussion.

Discussing the different aspects of a married relationship generically is fine with me, even with children present. However, if it goes into details, then it should be adults only. I'm sticking to my guns on that one.

deltaguitar · #33 01-30-2009, 09:12 AM

No problems here. I really don't know how effective it could be if it caused a huge uproar. I think I would rather it be in a smaller group setting because then you could actually cover the tough issues that are needed.

Truthseeker · #34 01-30-2009, 09:21 AM

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I am one of those rare people who is deeply thankful I didn't hear anything from my folks -only from other people.

why?

Apprehended · #35 01-30-2009, 09:24 AM

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If I attended there - I'd probably have to visit another church during Feb.

I take it that you are opposed to S--?

rgcraig · #36 01-30-2009, 09:37 AM

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I take it that you are opposed to S--?

LOL - - nope not at all.

Being single for over five years now probably not a good time to take notes.

SDG · #37 01-30-2009, 09:40 AM

Am I hearing that Sunday is way too of a holy day for this type of topic?

Apprehended · #38 01-30-2009, 09:42 AM

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LOL - - nope not at all.

Being single for over five years now probably not a good time to take notes.

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But, then you knew that I was looking for some way to beat up on you, didn't you?

I love making the burdens of life unbearable sometimes.... Hahaha

rgcraig · #39 01-30-2009, 09:46 AM

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But, then you knew that I was looking for some way to beat up on you, didn't you?

I love making the burdens of life unbearable sometimes.... Hahaha

Yes, I knew you were picking on me!

MissBrattified · #40 01-30-2009, 09:47 AM

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Am I hearing that Sunday is way too of a holy day for this type of topic?

Are you hearing what you want to hear?

Do you agree that there are some topics that are only appropriate for adults? And some topics that shouldn't be discussed in a mixed setting?

I wouldn't want to discuss details about sex in a room with any men, other than my husband. Nor do I want a man to be the one talking to me about sex. Now, an older woman? One who has been successful in marriage? That's fine.

My pastor? Nope. Don't want to hear what he has to say about sex. Sorry. (Other than what's already written in plain black and white print in scripture.)

Discussing it from a generic, biblical perspective is fine. Getting into details, personal stories or anecdotes, etc.--I'm not interested in that. That's why I said I would like to know ahead of time what is going to be discussed. Then I would decide whether or not to attend, and whether or not to hire a babysitter.