UPC Pastor Convicted of Slander in Pulpit! - Page 24

jfrog · #**231** 07-13-2010, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

I am not joking. Pentecostals don't wear bikinis; at least not real Pentecostals. Why was she at a pool with someone other than her husband, and why dressed that way? What was her motivation?

Let's get real. No one, not even a good atheist, goes to the pool with someone other than their spouse dressed like that unless they have a motive that is not godly.

If I were her husband, I would believe the act constituted unfaithfulness (cheating). Her desire was not to him, it was to another.

To the rest of the world a bikini is what many women, both married and unmarried, wear to go swimming.

Charnock · #**232** 07-13-2010, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified

Perhaps not, Charnock, but a wife not being a "real Pentecostal" isn't cause for divorce. Period.

I would hope my husband would make sure that was the case either through having a conversation with me or obtaining evidence of immorality before deciding that it constituted unfaithfulness.

Impropriety and immorality aren't one and the same.

So your husband would be okay with you leaving him at home while you traipsed off in a bikini to swim with one of his male friends?

Somehow I doubt that.

If you told him your plans, it would cause a fight. If you kept the plans secret, and he found out later, he would consider it cheating.

Baron1710 · #**233** 07-13-2010, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jfrog

To the rest of the world a bikini is what many women wear to go swimming...

No!?

Charnock · #**234** 07-13-2010, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jfrog

To the rest of the world a bikini is what many women, both married and unmarried, wear to go swimming.

Holiness folk have never been really interested about adapting the styles and lasciviousness of "the rest of the world."

canam · #**235** 07-13-2010, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

I am not joking. Pentecostals don't wear bikinis; at least not real Pentecostals. Why was she at a pool with someone other than her husband, and why dressed that way? What was her motivation?

Let's get real. No one, not even a good atheist, goes to the pool with someone other than their spouse dressed like that unless they have a motive that is not godly.

If I were her husband, I would believe the act constituted unfaithfulness (cheating). Her desire was not to him, it was to another.

Maybe they were both at the same pool coincidentally ! And were just chatting geepers creepers ! And please dont lecture me about exposing the body immodestly,not saying it was right. Im just saying!!. I hope your wife has you on an even shorter leash ,you deserve it.Pretty arrogant, good thing God doesnt feel like you about forgiveness or everyone except you would be in trouble because your perfect obviously !

jfrog · #**236** 07-13-2010, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

And I wonder at men who say they would have no problem with their wife leaving them at home in favor of going to a pool with another man clothed in nothing but a bikini.

Who said she left him at home? You have no clue about why he wasn't there.

Baron1710 · #**237** 07-13-2010, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

So your husband would be okay with you leaving him at home while you traipsed off in a bikini to swim with one of his make friends?

Somehow I doubt that.

If you told him your plans, it would cause a fight. If you kept the plans secret, and he found out later, he would consider it cheating.

Dude you are fabricating half the facts here.

You are assuming way more than you should.

allstate1 · #**238** 07-13-2010, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

It wouldn't matter to me if they were alone, or if they had sex. All that would matter is that she exposed herself to another man, in a calculated fashion.

Whenever you decide to join the real world you will find that not every move a person makes when it come to clothing is of a sexual motiff!!

Praxeas · #**239** 07-13-2010, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

It wouldn't matter to me if they were alone, or if they had sex. All that would matter is that she exposed herself to another man, in a calculated fashion.

I doubt she thought she was exposing her self in a calculated manner. She apparently didn't have the same views you do about showing arms and legs being exhibitionism

RandyWayne · #**240** 07-13-2010, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Charnock

And I wonder at men who say they would have no problem with their wife leaving them at home in favor of going to a pool with another man clothed in nothing but a bikini.

Well since we know nothing about the situation we can only guess but what if it was a case of "Hon, are you ready to head to the pool?", "Just go, I'll catch up in a few minutes", in which case her and "him" (his own wife may have been there the whole time as well -a "minor" detail left out) simply were the first to arrive.

Or, maybe same hanky panky WAS going on. She said there wasn't. Perhaps HE (the other husband) was the one pursuing her.