Sex Before Dinner, Does God Approve?

[MissBrattified]

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear

yes I agree we need teaching in churches in all areas and I have bought hundreds of marriage books for our couples here in Brazil...but there is a time and place for it...in fact I do lots of seminars here in Brazil on such subjects but I don't think some statements should be used before the whole church...Can you imagine reading The Act of Marriage before the church on Sunday Nights....
that is what I am trying to express...
I am all the way for helping people and my laptop is full of things I have done for classes.
However I have been in services when statements were made...a woman's place is in the bedroom....and all kinds of foolish things.

I think (this is only a personal opinion) that there is far too much ignorance in Pentecost...

I paid a woman doctor to come talk to my ladies...of course in some circles I would be crucified...especially since she was not a Pentecostal...however my ladies did not need a Pentecostal they needed some advice from a doctor...

I hope I am making sense....

That's excellent, Sister A.

Originally Posted by rgcraig

You are making perfect sense and I agree with you. It's good, but in a proper setting, announced and more teaching - not just sprinkled in the middle of sermons.

Yeah...I don't really want my children having sex ed on Sunday mornings, and I don't want to endure blunt comments in a mixed crowd. However, the occasional casual reference to a healthy sex life doesn't hurt anyone--just as long as it doesn't get explicit.

Originally Posted by nwlife

Being single, I just have to ask the question, though embarrassing it might be,


*ahem* are you ready for it?

*ahem*

my question is, just how ugly was the preacher's wife?


and now away I run to hide from the turmoil my sense of humor is likely to bring!

That is just BAD, nwlife. You should be ASHAMED!

[BeenThinkin]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

It just means I laughed out loud for a long time - not just a short laugh.

Kinda like oh or oooooooh - - short oh or long oh!

Oh! ooooooooooooooh

lolololololololololololo

Just trying to get everyone's mind off of sex. I think I'll go read the Song of Solomon!


BT

[MissBrattified]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

I think she was referring to the stupid things that were being preached like no sex in the daylight and only certain positions.

Plus - I'm not sure I think sex needs to be "preached" about, but more in a teaching/learning enviornment in classes - - not to the whole church on Sunday.

Bad example - - pastor here in Memphis set up a bedroom on the platform, wore his silk pj's and his wife came in wearing her bedroom attire - - he got pretty plain with the folks, but it was SUNDAY MORNING.....

I heard about that...(I think I might have watched a youtube clip, but I don't remember for sure). Two things:

1. Kudos for trying to address the issue, but
2. It was in REALLY bad taste.

I'm sure there were a lot of really uncomfortable people in that crowd--people who didn't EVER want to think about their pastor and his wife, well...in that light.

[iceniez]

Originally Posted by Timmy

I was wrong!

Of course it was not a UPC church............................................ ........................................PJ's are not allowed on the platform.

[rgcraig]

http://thadmatthews.blogspot.com/200...an-of-his.html

Sunday, December 09, 2007

Pastor A.R. Williams Shows The Women Of His Church 'How to Keep Their Husbands So The Hoe Don't Get Him'

Members of World Overcomers were shocked on last Sunday morning when they entered the place where they assemble to worship God. In the pulpit was a Queen sized bed draped in burgundy and gold.

Members were wondering why the place that normally Pastor Alton R. Williams preaches the word of God from had turned into a large bedroom, when he entered wearing a robe and pajama pants with his bible in hand. the lights are dimmed, mode music is playing,Williams at this point lays on the bed reading from the Songs of Solomon.

While still reading the bible his wife Sherrilyn enters the sanctuary wearing a long red feathered seductive fitting gown. Mrs. Williams very seductively walks across the pulpit turn bedroom and sits on the bed next to her husband. She closes his bible and begins to rub on him, and then lefts him from the bed and very passionately embraces and kisses him. Pastor Williams whose Sunday morning freak session is designed to save marriages tells the women in the congregation 'This is how to keep your husband so the Hoe don't get him'.

In my opinion A.R. Williams has gone to far, the pastor who spent $260,000 to build a statue that reminds you of the Statue Of Liberty has lost his God focus and now become an entertainer willing to do anything to keep fleecing his flock of their money so that he can continue to live his luxury lifestyle.

In a time that people in the community need the Word of God for deliverance from their plights by allowing the word to get them up and motivated to make changes in their lives, this fool wants to hold Sunday morning sex classes. What about salvation and the saving of souls? I guess with New Directions Church being less than a mile away Williams is losing members which means that he is losing dollars.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by iceniez

Of course it was not a UPC church............................................ ........................................PJ's are not allowed on the platform.

Oh, she wasn't in PJ's.......

[iceniez]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Oh, she wasn't in PJ's.......

I read that.......... but I was trying to be funny.

[berkeley]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

I'm sure they did.

I know there have been pastors to preach only certain positions were acceptable.

That Mother's Day sermon in 2005? 2006??

[seekerman]

Originally Posted by allstate1

You may have started this as a joke but I have heard sex in daylight actually preached against!!!!!

It's ok if you keep your eyes closed.

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by allstate1

You may have started this as a joke but I have heard sex in daylight actually preached against!!!!!

Wow!! That's as bad as the guy preaching against cereal.