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Originally Posted by Addicted
I need to speak to a male who has been addicted to pornography and has over come this addiction. I am in desperate need of help and i want to quit or it will destroy me, seriously. I very seldom cry out for help concerning this matter because a part of me doesn't want to stop, that's what makes it so bad, so now i am in that moment of deep "sick and tired" and am making a plea for someone to talk to while the window is open, i don't want it to close anymore because then i will have a hard time talking to anyone about it. If you know anyone who isn't on this forum who had this problem, please notify them that their is a brother that is in desperate need and hopefully God will lead them to join this forum to give me hope.
Thank you 
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While prayer helps, simply sitting and praying (and fasting) 24/7 is not the answer. The answer is finding something ELSE to do with your time and finding other things to occupy your thoughts. Let other interests and hobbies take precedent. Personally I've delved into my computer skills (am the IT guy at a private school here in Arizona) and other hobbies such as photography and photoshop. It does work!
Simply sitting in a chair, white knuckled, trying not to do something will never ever work. Never. It needs to be replaced with something else.