How many of our churches are missing a generation? How many have either older adults and grandchildren, or thirty somethings and their children, but no older generation? How do we stop losing our children after they leave for college?
I listened to a masterpiece sermon on this issue yesterday. Here are some of my notes:
What is the most important age group? Answer: Jr High age. This is the age to identify leadership qualities and start to involve them in the worship services. When they get to High School age, have them mentor a Jr. high student. Scholars say ten of the twelve disciples were teenagers when chosen by Jesus!
RULES:
1. No bench! All generations are starters and are used in family worship services. Find ways to involve all age groups in worship services. Elderly and young can be greeters, encouraged to lay hands on the sick, pray with seekers in the alter, collect offering, play instruments, sing Etc.
No bataan is passed! Sorry older folks, but there's no retirement from discipleship.
2. Church is made up of GREAT FAMILIES! Be a godly old person (non-judgmental) Youth set an example - behavior garners respect.
3. Intergenerational worship -
Romans 15:1-7 with ONE voice!
Individually, we each have a favorite style.
Diverse ages and mixed styles of music. Doing a great job when each generation is equally dissatisfied!!! Ha!
Old people should care about the young people, and young people should care about the old people.
Thoughts?
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