Re: Difficult Relatives
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Originally Posted by shazeep
Ya, i'd agree that that is the worst thing one may do. I have learned that most people become that way by outside forces, societal pressures. It's no secret that we have a sick society. We overindulge our children (and our pets, and...), with the best of intentions, trying our best to 'shield' them from the world, and then wonder why they can't function in the world. It's some failure of "Raise a child up in the way he should go..." obviously, but i doubt i would do any better lol. I can say that I was over-indulged as a kid; thought of chores as 'punishment,' etc...
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Both brothers, I think have an incapacity to connect actions with consequences. This was noticed in both of them from a very young age, but back then, nothing was done. It has just progressed with the addition of addictions on top of it.
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