I currently attend a UPCI church, actually a small but growing daughter work.
My pastor is a very gifted young minister with a heart to follow after God, and I am very excited about what God is doing in Sebastian Florida. I love my current pastor and church family.
There are also ministers on this forum that are not affiliated with any organization who I also love and think of as part of my church.
I think it is heart breaking when a brother or sister falls away, falls into sin, placing their eternity in jeopardy. I would hesitate to glory in it for the sake of argument.
I also think a person who would condemn an organization to hell because they insist on everyone wearing long sleeves, or insist on women wearing scarves, or whatever, has no love for the body of Christ or edifying the body in love.
Galatians 6:1-10 1Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. 2Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ. 3For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 4But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5For every man shall bear his own burden. 6Let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things. 7Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 9And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. 10As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.