Sounds like a good read...
The sad thing is that our culture has been so neutered that a book like that is deemed necessary.
Where I came from, there were a lot of dysfunctions for sure, but being soft and effeminate was not among the more common ones.
The pastors I grew up around were rugged, masculine men, and there were strong men in their churches.
Oh, and by the way, our keyboard players were all girls.