Gabby's

[Tina]

Originally Posted by QueenEsther

Ok, I am soooo aggervated right now. I have been trying to help a friend of mine with a situation she has been having and she seems to be responding well. She seems to be doing better with her problem and she thanks me all the time for helping her. We pray together at church, email back and forth, txt each other, I ask her all the time how she is doing. She always tells me that she is doing good. Then I find out she has been lying to me and acting like she has overcame her problem and she is still doing what she was doing in secret - not really secret bcause some people knew, but she was keeping it a secret from me. I am so frusturated. I am wasting my time with her, it's one thing if she really wants to change but evidentally she doesn't.

I don't know what to do. Still be her friend and act like I don't know - but quit wasting my time on the counseling or tell her outright that I know and that I am very disappointed. Now I know why the others quit couselling her, I just thought they didn't have enough patience!!! ANy advice?

I understand how you feel. I have a friend that is similar. I wish I had advice to give, but I don't know what to tell you. I just keep praying for my friend, in hopes that the Lord will really get a hold of her and make her realize she needs to make a change.