Breaking into church cliques
Through the years many churches have been known for their attitude of "us four and no more", and breaking into cliques of family or friends who have always done things the same way, with the same people for as long as anyone remembers. Just where is it that the new member/new convert fits?
Having been on both sides of the fence, Pastor's wife & saint, I have seen the clique issue from both sides. Pastor's & their wives hate to cause waves, especially new Pastor's & wives...so what are they to do to break the cliques, and allow others into leadership roles.
I only know the wrong way...we took a well-established church and within two years had revamped it and they pretty much kicked us out...even though what we did worked. No one really cares if it works or not...they just want to do things the way they have always done them.
So, this is an opportunity for some of you to educate me: how would you suggest making changes in leadership that would benefit the church without alienating the "pillars of the church"?
Just curious,
Rhoni
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