Adornment!!

[MomOfADramaQn]

Originally Posted by Falla39

How would you like for your wife to be at work and her adornment
and makeup turned on other men! Would that be sin!

My husband takes it as a compliment when other men find me attractive - he likes it that I take care of myself and don't like to look all frumpy when I am out in public - so even though you were not asking me the question - yes he likes it that I turn other men on

[Falla39]

Originally Posted by MomOfADramaQn

My husband takes it as a compliment when other men find me attractive - he likes it that I take care of myself and don't like to look all frumpy when I am out in public - so even though you were not asking me the question - yes he likes it that I turn other men on

Is it sin when women who are supposed to know better, try to turn
other men on and like for their husband to like for them to do so. What if
your husband is having other women turning him on. I see red flags in
your post. I certainly do not want other women turning my husband on.

I believe in taking care of oneself and not looking "all frumpy", BUT not for
the intent to turn other men on. If this thinking/reasoning prevails, I suspect
there will be more divorces in the church, and broken homes.
If a person is adorning and making up themselves with the intent to turn the
opposite sex on, I would call it SIN!

If you have daughters, if this is what you are teaching them by example.
Women who think like this are very dangerous in the workplace, and to the
home. JMHO!

Not to offend!

Falla39

[MomOfADramaQn]

Originally Posted by Falla39

Is it sin when women who are supposed to know better, try to turn
other men on and like for their husband to like for them to do so. What if
your husband is having other women turning him on. I see red flags in
your post. I certainly do not want other women turning my husband on.

I believe in taking care of oneself and not looking "all frumpy", BUT not for
the intent to turn other men on. If this thinking/reasoning prevails, I suspect
there will be more divorces in the church, and broken homes.
If a person is adorning and making up themselves with the intent to turn the
opposite sex on, I would call it SIN!

If you have daughters, if this is what you are teaching them by example.
Women who think like this are very dangerous in the workplace, and to the
home. JMHO!

Not to offend!

Falla39

I never said I dressed with INTENT to turn other men on - you put those words in my mouth. I keep myself fit and I dress nice and attractive. I wear very little makeup - most people cannot even tell I have it on. My husband is NOT the only man that finds me attractive and that does not make me sin. That makes me someone who takes care of myself and other people notice. And yes - there are women who find my husband attractive. He is a very athletic handsome man and I am proud to have him and it is only natural that other women find him attractive - it doesn't mean that just because someone finds you attractive that means you are turned on. I see women that I think attractive but I am aboslutely NOT turned on - that's a bit ridiculous.

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Falla39

Is it sin when women who are supposed to know better, try to turn
other men on and like for their husband to like for them to do so. What if
your husband is having other women turning him on. I see red flags in
your post. I certainly do not want other women turning my husband on.

I believe in taking care of oneself and not looking "all frumpy", BUT not for
the intent to turn other men on. If this thinking/reasoning prevails, I suspect
there will be more divorces in the church, and broken homes.
If a person is adorning and making up themselves with the intent to turn the
opposite sex on, I would call it SIN!

If you have daughters, if this is what you are teaching them by example.
Women who think like this are very dangerous in the workplace, and to the
home. JMHO!

Not to offend!

Falla39

One big high five for you!!

[Falla39]

Originally Posted by MomOfADramaQn

My husband takes it as a compliment when other men find me attractive - he likes it that I take care of myself and don't like to look all frumpy when I am out in public - so even though you were not asking me the question - yes he likes it that I turn other men on

The bolded is what I was responding to.

Falla39

[MomOfADramaQn]

Originally Posted by Falla39

The bolded is what I was responding to.

Falla39

I was being a bit sarcastic - because it seems you think finding someone attractive and turning someone on as one and the same.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by MomOfADramaQn

I was being a bit sarcastic - because it seems you think finding someone attractive and turning someone on as one and the same.

I got that!

[Falla39]

Originally Posted by MomOfADramaQn

I was being a bit sarcastic - because it seems you think finding someone attractive and turning someone on as one and the same.

Not so! What makes it wrong is when an attractive person likes to
use their attractiveness to turn on other men and make the statement that
their husband LIKES them to turn on other men.
That is all I was responding to. I am through with this conversation!

Falla39