How to deal with cheating husband

[Truthseeker]

My marriage is a sad case if my wife feels like she has to do certain things to keep me from cheating. She should do things because I am her husband and any adonrment/make pretty should be based on desire for me as her husband not to keep me right.

[ILG]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

My marriage is a sad case if my wife feels like she has to do certain things to keep me from cheating. She should do things because I am her husband and any adonrment/make pretty should be based on desire for me as her husband not to keep me right.

[Michlow]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

My marriage is a sad case if my wife feels like she has to do certain things to keep me from cheating. She should do things because I am her husband and any adonrment/make pretty should be based on desire for me as her husband not to keep me right.

I was told (it was actually by a Poster here several years ago) that I had made a horrible mistake marrying an Atheist. (that statement wouldn't have surprised me, if he'd pulled out the equally yoked scripture)

His reasoning was that if my husband didn't believe in God...more particularly judgment and hell, then what was to prevent him from being unfaithful to me? My response: because I'm awesome!

But seriously, what wife would want her husband to be faithful only because he thought he would be going to hell otherwise?

[OnTheFritz]

Originally Posted by Michlow

I was told (it was actually by a Poster here several years ago) that I had made a horrible mistake marrying an Atheist. (that statement wouldn't have surprised me, if he'd pulled out the equally yoked scripture)

His reasoning was that if my husband didn't believe in God...more particularly judgment and hell, then what was to prevent him from being unfaithful to me? My response: because I'm awesome!

But seriously, what wife would want her husband to be faithful only because he thought he would be going to hell otherwise?

Yeah, I love the assumption that non-Christians have no morals.

[Michlow]

Originally Posted by OnTheFritz

Yeah, I love the assumption that non-Christians have no morals.

One of the things that amazed me when we were dating was the realization that we actually have very similar morals/ethics, there is just a different reasoning behind them.

[Revelationist]

Originally Posted by OnTheFritz

Yeah, I love the assumption that non-Christians have no morals.

He's not responsible, the Debil made him do it.

[ILG]

Originally Posted by Michlow

I was told (it was actually by a Poster here several years ago) that I had made a horrible mistake marrying an Atheist. (that statement wouldn't have surprised me, if he'd pulled out the equally yoked scripture)

His reasoning was that if my husband didn't believe in God...more particularly judgment and hell, then what was to prevent him from being unfaithful to me? My response: because I'm awesome!

But seriously, what wife would want her husband to be faithful only because he thought he would be going to hell otherwise?

If that was the only reason, he probably wouldn't be faithful for long!