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Old 05-25-2007, 08:51 PM
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You actually believe I think that the root cause of the modern church's irrelevance is kids having a separate class from adults once a week?

Perhaps the root cause isn't children's programs, but simple illiteracy, maybe?
You DID indicate that as part of the problem. If you did not then that just adds all the more to the confusion and the issue of style and substance. Seriously. If that is the case think about it because if you have an important message to get across you should be concerned with how to do that effectively. Otherwise why bother if you don't even give a hoot?
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Old 05-30-2007, 12:02 AM
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You DID indicate that as part of the problem. If you did not then that just adds all the more to the confusion and the issue of style and substance. Seriously. If that is the case think about it because if you have an important message to get across you should be concerned with how to do that effectively. Otherwise why bother if you don't even give a hoot?

One of the marks of the effeminisation of our society is this insistence upon the superiority of style over substance. It matters not at all what point a person makes, the idea a person expresses is of no serious concern one way or the other. No, what matters is "how they say it". Style, and a vapid, tepid, lukewarm style at that, is to be preferred, it seems, by so many.

A person's statements are judged in this day and age, not by the content of their words, but by their melody (or lack thereof). Thus, demogogues may spew forth endless reams of absolute meaninglessness, and we swallow it all, and applaud, and remark how stirring and true the words were, if - and only if - the delivery is to our satisfaction. Like grade school instructors, we look for the inflection, tone, punctuation, form, and care not for the content, substance, thought or idea being expressed. As long as the style is pleasing to us, we care not what is being said.

Thus, a man may make no sense whatsoever, but it is accepted as great and wonderful if it tickles our ear. And likewise, a man may make perfect sense, but it is rejected if the the form and style is not up to our "standards" of rhetorical correctness.

Praxeas, this insistence upon style is part of what is killing us.

I refuse the poison.

If it means you or others will not listen, then so be it. I speak what I believe to be truth. I do not speak because I hope people will be impressed with my elocutionary skills. I speak because the truth must be spoken. "I believe, therefore I have spoken."

If a person cannot even pay attention to WHAT I am saying because I do not meet their expectations of HOW I should be saying it, then I doubt they are worth the bother for me to comply with some silly notion of correctness. They are looking for form, style, appearance... not the substance of what someone has to say. They are not my intended audience, therefore.

Their protestations of my "uncouthness" or "roughness" or "impoliteness" are nothing more than the complaints of eavesdroppers, as far as I am concerned.

Now, I have known you for I don't even know how many years. It is therefore important for me to attempt to make myself clear to you. In fact, I try to be clear to whoever I talk, or post as the case may be. Generally speaking, that is.

I will attempt one more time to make this pont clear, with which you seem to be having so much trouble for some reason... though I think you are latching on to the smallest jot and tittle and passing by the more important and serious issues - again, bypassing the main thing to harangue and argue about the smallest thing...

Once again, for clarity's sake, I asked the question concerning the modern church, questioning whether the claim that is made by the modern church world of Christendom (Oneness Pentecostalism included) is backed up by the observable reality.

It is clear that my premise is something akin to the following: The modern church is hypocritical in that it offers the Bible as a solution to society's ills while it simultaneously is either afflicted with those very same ills, or else is contributing to those ills.

I offered several points in support of that premise. ONE of those points concerned with the modern church's relationship to the family. And on that point I offered several subpoints. And ONE of those subpoints concerned the youth and children oriented programs so beloved by the modern church culture insofar as those programs contributed to segregating family members along age.

That was simply one subpoint of a larger point, which itself was but one point out of (I believe it was) four points, which themselves were never inteded to be the sum of all points, but were simply those four which I felt inclined to talk about.

Yet, this one tiny subpoint of a larger point which itself contributed only 25 percent toward the entire original post, was elevated to the position of ground zero. It was assumed that this one subpoint of a larger (though still itself a minority) point must be THE point of points. Consider what was asked:

"When you are addressing a huge problem, and then you relegate the cause to something such as kids having a separate class from adults once a week...well...that's just laughable." (emphasis added)

The poster here claimed I relegated the cause of the problem to kids having a separate class from adults once a week.

1. This is a rhetorical attempt at marginalising the point I actually made. I never said anything about "once a week".

2. This is a gross over simplification of what I did most plainly and clearly state.

3. This is indicative of either unwillingness or inability to see the obvious (namely what I actually posted).

Then you pick up the gauntlet, so to say, and repeat the nonsense herein described, compounding it by offering a false dichotomy of either I made the point the poster quoted says I made, or else I made no such point at all.

The fact is, Praxeas, age-segregated services and "programs" are 1)unbiblical, and therefore 2)unauthorised by the New Testament, and therefore 3)contrary to the will of God, and 4)observably harmful to the spiritual growth of Christian families, altogether.

Is this debatable? Certainly it is.

But to attempt to make age-segregated classes THE fulcrum upon which my entire post attempts to balance is ridiculous and a waste of bandwidth.

Finally, Praxeas, this may come across as rude and crude and socially unacceptable, but I honestly don't care one single whit about anyone who complains about my "style". I apologise. Sometimes I wish I could care. But I don't! I cannot help it! I really and truly believe that anyone who would reject anyone's message or statements or opinions simply because "that person's tone doesn't please me"... I honestly believe that such people are feeble minded, effeminate, spiritually pudgy and not even worth trying to please in any way, shape, or form.

In fact, I believe such people are possibly lost, for that very effeminacy alone. I do believe when Paul said the effeminate will not inherit the kingdom of God, he meant what he said. And I believe his words are the words of God Himself.

The man who prefers style over substance (even if he might disagree, but especially if he might agree, with that substance or content), is a wickedly carnally-minded man, an intellectual sodomite, if I may be so crude.

And that is my opinion. Your mileage may vary.

I think we have almost destroyed our usefulness to God with this damnable softness, this "sensitivity" to the carnal man's "feelings". We relegate the omnipotent power of God to save - the proclaimed Word of Truth - to a status of insufferable weakness. We make God in His glory and splendour subservient to the FLESH and its SELFCENTEREDNESS>

Jesus said unless a man deny himself, he cannot be His disciple.

Do you think He meant to include denying our desire that people please us with their words, tone, demeaner, mannerisms?

I think perhaps so.
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Old 05-30-2007, 01:15 AM
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One of the marks of the effeminisation of our society is this insistence upon the superiority of style over substance. It matters not at all what point a person makes, the idea a person expresses is of no serious concern one way or the other. No, what matters is "how they say it". Style, and a vapid, tepid, lukewarm style at that, is to be preferred, it seems, by so many.
Good grief...are you serious? I never said style over substance. You LACK style and sometimes the substance you add is either bizaare or just does not mesh with the rest of the point you were to have made. This thread was just an example. Think about it and it might help you improve getting your important points across rather than becoming defensive over it.

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I offered several points in support of that premise. ONE of those points concerned with the modern church's relationship to the family. And on that point I offered several subpoints. And ONE of those subpoints concerned the youth and children oriented programs so beloved by the modern church culture insofar as those programs contributed to segregating family members along age.

That was simply one subpoint of a larger point, which itself was but one point out of (I believe it was) four points, which themselves were never inteded to be the sum of all points, but were simply those four which I felt inclined to talk about.

Yet, this one tiny subpoint of a larger point which itself contributed only 25 percent toward the entire original post, was elevated to the position of ground zero. It was assumed that this one subpoint of a larger (though still itself a minority) point must be THE point of points. Consider what was asked:

"When you are addressing a huge problem, and then you relegate the cause to something such as kids having a separate class from adults once a week...well...that's just laughable." (emphasis added)
what you offered was an assertion that went unfounded and really fails to address the topic of hypocrisy OF the modern church...how does having separate classes equal hypocrisy?

Additionally your polemic took the form of suggesting the only true church was the adult class and that kids should not be with adults, but that is usually NOT the case with most churches. Most churchs have sunday school classes and THEN the whole church has collective worship and preaching together. When you fail to recognize that or at least address it, it makes the perception of your just making a one sided polemic all the more acute. Is having one class a week for kids and one for adults really hurting people? If so you need to prove that. Its NOT true that the kids and adults are not together for church either.

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The poster here claimed I relegated the cause of the problem to kids having a separate class from adults once a week.

1. This is a rhetorical attempt at marginalising the point I actually made. I never said anything about "once a week".

2. This is a gross over simplification of what I did most plainly and clearly state.

3. This is indicative of either unwillingness or inability to see the obvious (namely what I actually posted).
See actually I don't think your points are as clear as YOU think they are. I am sure to you they are since you know what point you were trying to make. But for many here you just seem to be ranting

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Then you pick up the gauntlet, so to say, and repeat the nonsense herein described, compounding it by offering a false dichotomy of either I made the point the poster quoted says I made, or else I made no such point at all.
Actually brother I was the one that started this issue you made of 'separation'...I did not take issue with any of the rest of what you posted because this issue seemed like a bigger fish out of water. I suggest you really are not that clear, not as clear as you think you are particularly when you are dealing with people that want to know WHY you think sometime is the case rather than just accept it as true because you or someone else says so. You strike me as an intelligent and logical person but Im saying that when you post you could probably do a better job of getting others to see what your points are and why those points are true

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The fact is, Praxeas, age-segregated services and "programs" are 1)unbiblical, and therefore 2)unauthorised by the New Testament, and therefore 3)contrary to the will of God, and 4)observably harmful to the spiritual growth of Christian families, altogether.
Just because something is not specifically mentioned does NOT make it contrary to the will of God. How had the word of God specifically said NOT to have schools for kids then Id agree with you. We know women taught other women separate from the men...how do we know that? Older women were told to teach younger women YET were told NOT to teach the men...you think that all happened in the same room? Even if it did they were still having separate classes in the same area.

You say observably harmful to the spiritual growth of Christian families together...do you have an unbiased independent source for that?

Also, let me repeat...families, adults and kids and the whole group DO have meetings together. If the kids choose not to attend the collective meetings most churches have with adults or vice versa that does not make having classes for kids the culprit. That is a logical fallacy unless you have something concrete other than your feelings to support that

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But to attempt to make age-segregated classes THE fulcrum upon which my entire post attempts to balance is ridiculous and a waste of bandwidth.
Who did that? I did not. I infact said that I did not disagree with much of what you said.

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Finally, Praxeas, this may come across as rude and crude and socially unacceptable, but I honestly don't care one single whit about anyone who complains about my "style". I apologise. Sometimes I wish I could care.
Maybe you SHOULD care. If your style is hindering an important message from getting across or the substance too, maybe you SHOULD care. If I had an important message from God I would feel very responsible to get that message across in a way that would NOT detract or subtract from the important content of that message.

If you were witnessing to a bunch of people and no results and someone suggested its not the message but the delivery and you said I don't care...what does that say really about your personally? Doesn't that sound a little prideful or even defensive that someone might suggest you could get your point across even better if you changed delivery or style a little but and you say you don't really care? Why even bother then if you dont care?
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But I don't! I cannot help it! I really and truly believe that anyone who would reject anyone's message or statements or opinions simply because "that person's tone doesn't please me"... I honestly believe that such people are feeble minded, effeminate, spiritually pudgy and not even worth trying to please in any way, shape, or form.
You might truely believe that and obviously you don't give a hoot enough about others to try to make your message a little more clearer/

I never said style OVER substance. I said a little of both. I think from reading your points that very ofter people are just scratching their heads. They are not saying "he is rude" and tuning you out. They are just scratching your heads not sure what to make of what you are saying. It just very often seems more like someone is ranting than making an intelligent appeal for truth

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In fact, I believe such people are possibly lost, for that very effeminacy alone. I do believe when Paul said the effeminate will not inherit the kingdom of God, he meant what he said. And I believe his words are the words of God Himself.
LOL....that's pathetic. I believe Paul too, but to arbitrarily redefine this word to work in you favor here, contrary to what that word means, is really pathetic...
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The man who prefers style over substance (even if he might disagree, but especially if he might agree, with that substance or content), is a wickedly carnally-minded man, an intellectual sodomite, if I may be so crude.
Like I said, you didn't need to get defensive. Just consider that you might be able to reach MORE people with what you are saying. Clearly you don't really even care ..I don't even see why you post when you don't really care anyways.

You ever walk up to a sinner and tell him to "f off" if he does not give his life to Christ? Would you advocate such a tactic or style? if not, are you then effeminate?

BTW I never said anyone, let alone myself, prefers style OVER substance. Perhaps you are just emotional right now and are unable to objectively read what others have said...which to me would be MORE of an effeminate trait than telling someone how they might reach a larger audience by clearing up what they said, working on both style and substance...lol

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Jesus said unless a man deny himself, he cannot be His disciple.

Do you think He meant to include denying our desire that people please us with their words, tone, demeaner, mannerisms?
Are you kidding? You can't even deny yourself when someone suggests maybe you can make some changes to get your message across better and clearer. Instead you offer a pride filled "I don't care!" Good grief.

Have you really denied yourself brother? Is your "humility" as genuine as you think it is? I don't know.

You call everyone effeminate because they suggest you might be able to deliver your messages better...hmmmmm

You say you don't really even care anyways that it's not your responsibilty in the slightest. It's all on the hearers...never mind that the speaker makes no effort, because he does not even care, to make his message clear and attainable to the hearers Hmmmmmmm

They should be able to understand what you say regardless of your inability to effectively communicate and do little more than offer incoherent rantings with no substance and the style of thug. Hmmmm

Paul knew how to address differences in his listening audience and how to both be crude when he needed to be and NOT crude when he needed to be. He cared, which is more than I can say for you.

You say you wish you could care...do you lack self control brother? Maybe you are a spiritual sodomite yourself?

1Co 9:22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some.
1Co 9:23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.

1Co 9:25 Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable.

Are you being patient when you react like this with the tongue lashing and the rudeness? You don't sound very patient.

2Ti 2:23 Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.
2Ti 2:24 And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil,
2Ti 2:25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth,
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