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Old 12-17-2014, 03:49 PM
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Re: To My Porn-Watching Dad, From Your Daughter

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Really? She writes a letter to allow him to know how this have affected her life. That's just simply honesty on her part.
Buuuut.............She doesn't have to allow her father to alter the way she should live.
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Old 12-17-2014, 03:59 PM
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Buuuut.............She doesn't have to allow her father to alter the way she should live.
He has a God given responsibility to protect her life, especially in what would shape her character. A girl or young woman will, for the most part, view men through the same lens she sees her father.

And she took responsibility for her life by forgiving him and marrying a man that was not like him.

To say her father's actions didn't affect her in some ways is a huge oversight.
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Old 12-17-2014, 04:05 PM
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Re: To My Porn-Watching Dad, From Your Daughter

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He has a God given responsibility to protect her life, especially in what would shape her character. A girl or young woman will, for the most part, view men through the same lens she sees her father.

And she took responsibility for her life by forgiving him and marrying a man that was not like him.

To say her father's actions didn't affect her in some ways is a huge oversight.
No argument from me, the father should've considered his child that's a given. I wonder how many of us should blame our parents though seeing how we ALL are shapen in iniquity. I don't give her father a free pass, but to put the blame on our parents is something we ALL could do.
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Old 12-17-2014, 04:10 PM
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Re: To My Porn-Watching Dad, From Your Daughter

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He has a God given responsibility to protect her life, especially in what would shape her character. A girl or young woman will, for the most part, view men through the same lens she sees her father.

And she took responsibility for her life by forgiving him and marrying a man that was not like him.

To say her father's actions didn't affect her in some ways is a huge oversight.
It is good to move on and not dwell in the past. Love your dad because you are bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. Venting out frustration usually does far much more harm then good. If anything it should be a private conversation between you and him personally, and be prepared that it may not bring the results that you desire. Only God can heal old wounds and words can create new ones..
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