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Originally Posted by n david
Perhaps I wasn't clear. The examples you gave were perverted. It's perversion which caused Amnon to rape Tamar. It was perversion which caused Lot's daughters to have sex with him. It was perversion which caused incest in the Bible. I would agree perversion is not natural.
I should have separated the issue, instead of combining in the same sentence.
It is natural for a man to be attracted to a woman.
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I am in alignment with the above.
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It is not natural for a man to be attracted to a man. Period. It doesn't matter if he holds the attraction inside and doesn't act on it. It is unnatural according to the Bible and it is sin.
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It IS natural (in the sense of normal/typical) to a human whose law of sin in their members has not been crucified and who is not walking in the Spirit.
Any form of sinfulness is natural to the natural, unregenerate person.
And I do not think you can prove that the attraction is "sin". Experiencing an attraction doesn't equal transgression. Acting on the attraction and allowing it to entertain the mind until the thoughts and intents of the heart lead one into sin, is.
It is only until lust has conceived, that sin is born. Simply having lust enter the heart, in any way, doesn't mean a person has sinned. Only when one attempts to sate their lust, that they enter into sinfulness.
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Agreed. Lust is sin. Any man/woman who lusts after another man/woman is in sin. Our disagreement in that you believe it's okay for a man to be attracted to another man. It is not.
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I do not believe it is "okay", but rather normal, in many circumstances, due to the law of sin in our members. Many are the young children who were abused, exposed, or misled into a sexual identity crisis and grew up confused and tempted and, due to environmental circumstances, possibly allowed to explore that crisis and act in unseemly ways with the same sex. For such a young child later growing up under that condemnation, walking in that darkness, homosexuality is "only natural", as the saying goes.
Natural doesn't equal God ordained/created. It means something that is normal, or comes naturally in a given situation. And since the given situation is sinful humanity, it's quite a normal thing, even for people in the Church, to experience same sex attraction. Most never dare speak a word of it to anyone, for fear of humiliation and condemnation, and so, never get any help from the Body, and just go on living with it, trying and crying and praying and seeking God, but never quite overcoming, eventually giving up because from the church-world's pov, they are nothing but abominations.
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The bible is clearly against it.
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Quite right. Clearly against it. Where have I given any indication I believe otherwise?
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It's sin, regardless of whether the homosexual acts on his attraction or not.
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You can't prove that from the Holy Scriptures. Heterosexual attraction between a married man and a coworker isn't sin, but a temptation waiting to become sin, if the man isn't careful.
Attraction is merely being drawn to something. We can be attracted to a new church, a different ministry, a new job, a new car, or whatever. None of that is sin, even if it's not God's will for us to have any of the above. It only BECOMES a sin when we refuse God's will, disobey His instruction, shrug off His admonishment, and go after that which attracted us.
The drawing to isn't a transgression. But one needs must be careful, that they don't allow their own lusts to draw them away into sin.
Is this really so contrary to how most people understand things? This seems the only sensible way to approach these things, to me, at least.