I have Left the UPC Church

LaVonne · #1 06-13-2007, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Michlow

I haven't been around much lately, and when I am, I mainly lurk. Many of you on here, have known me for over 3 years now, through all the various incarnations of the forum. You saw me liberal, and then conservative, and then go back to the liberal side of things. You have witnessed many changes in my character, some good, some bad.

I have always tried to be transparent and honest about my spriritual journey. I have never been one to shy away from admitting my struggles or doubts.

So with that in mind, I share the lastest chapter. Several weeks back, I made the decision to leave the apostolic church completely. Truth be told, for a long time, I was only halfway in. Yes, I questioned standards. But there were many other things I questioned as well. Recently I realized that I had reached a point where there was more that I disagreed with, that what I agreed with. I also realized that I no longer identified myself as "apostolic" or "upc", but simply as "christian" or a "believer". So the change is pretty minimal.

So Ultra-Con's, you can put on your sackcloth and ashes; and liberals you can rejoice

Well Mich, I'm not exactly what kind of response you are expecting. I will always love you for the person you are, regardless if you attend church or not. I can't say I'm happy you've left UPC, because from what I've heard from you, you had a pretty decent pastor.

Rico · #2 06-13-2007, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by CareyM

Well Mich, I'm not exactly what kind of response you are expecting. I will always love you for the person you are, regardless if you attend church or not. I can't say I'm happy you've left UPC, because from what I've heard from you, you had a pretty decent pastor.

Sister, all hope is not lost. I believe Sister Mich is considering at least one other apostolic church about 40 miles away.

LaVonne · #3 06-13-2007, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Rico

Sister, all hope is not lost. I believe Sister Mich is considering at least one other apostolic church about 40 miles away.

That's good to hear! Mich and I haven't talked in awhile...and you just never know with that girl!

Rico · #4 06-13-2007, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by CareyM

That's good to hear! Mich and I haven't talked in awhile...and you just never know with that girl!

Well, what can ya expect from someone whose screen name used to be Michelob? Well, that was her avatar.

Michlow · #5 06-13-2007, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by CareyM

Well Mich, I'm not exactly what kind of response you are expecting. I will always love you for the person you are, regardless if you attend church or not. I can't say I'm happy you've left UPC, because from what I've heard from you, you had a pretty decent pastor.

I suppose this might be considered "preacher bashing" or get me labeled as bitter...etc.. but Yes, I did have a "pretty decent" pastor as far as UPC goes It's not about him personally, it's bigger than that. I mean, when it was just standards, it was fine. I could go there, and no one judged me or treated me poorly for not following them. But it's beyond that.

I know there are areas where we disagree, but I think our friendship can surpass those obstacles! I love ya girl!

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Originally Posted by Rico

Sister, all hope is not lost. I believe Sister Mich is considering at least one other apostolic church about 40 miles away.

LOL, is that one of those speak those things that aren't as though they are, charismatic things? I would love to visit Bro. Tatums church on occasion, but Its an hour drive, and I doubt I will make it a regular thing!

Rico · #6 06-13-2007, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Michlow

I suppose this might be considered "preacher bashing" or get me labeled as bitter...etc.. but Yes, I did have a "pretty decent" pastor as far as UPC goes It's not about him personally, it's bigger than that. I mean, when it was just standards, it was fine. I could go there, and no one judged me or treated me poorly for not following them. But it's beyond that.

I know there are areas where we disagree, but I think our friendship can surpass those obstacles! I love ya girl!

LOL, is that one of those speak those things that aren't as though they are, charismatic things? I would love to visit Bro. Tatums church on occasion, but Its an hour drive, and I doubt I will make it a regular thing!

Maybe, but as soon as the Lord moves upon you to move you will probly be a lot closer!

ChTatum · #7 06-13-2007, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Rico

Maybe, but as soon as the Lord moves upon you to move you will probly be a lot closer!

Now brother, don't presume the office of prophet......

Rico · #8 06-13-2007, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by ChTatum

Now brother, don't presume the office of prophet......

No prophesying here, Bro. Just speaking in faith for my Sister.

LaVonne · #9 06-13-2007, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Michlow

I suppose this might be considered "preacher bashing" or get me labeled as bitter...etc.. but Yes, I did have a "pretty decent" pastor as far as UPC goes It's not about him personally, it's bigger than that. I mean, when it was just standards, it was fine. I could go there, and no one judged me or treated me poorly for not following them. But it's beyond that.

I know there are areas where we disagree, but I think our friendship can surpass those obstacles! I love ya girl!

LOL, is that one of those speak those things that aren't as though they are, charismatic things? I would love to visit Bro. Tatums church on occasion, but Its an hour drive, and I doubt I will make it a regular thing!

Yes our friendship will surpass these obstacles! You know I'm always here for you and I expect the same from you!