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Originally Posted by Emma Bontrager
Emma isn't exactly what I would call a mockery. But seriously, Steve Hoover ought to know, if you don't agree with Emma. I think that both Steve and Emma agree that it does happen, but to say it is the norm is, I think, an exaggeration. That's kind of like saying Apostolic kids all throw off the long dresses and long hair etc. and go party down. Well, some do, but I couldn't say most. The documentary was based on a few lives of kids who were so far away from the Amish roots they were willing to be in a documentary. That says something right there.
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Emma I would acknowledge this - that the wild parties are a "normal" occurrance for any sizable gathering among the Amish and even many OOM parties of rumspringa age. I do not think it's fair to say it is normal for all or most to engage in the wildest activities though. In my experience, and I have been to my share - even a few of the Amish ones - there are usally about three divisions at a "Rumspringa Singing".
1. The striaght ones - ultracons if you will. These sing the German and English songs and see the "Singing" in it's original sense. Fellowship, singing, possibly dating.
2. The moderates - representing perhaps 70% of the Rumspinga group - they may or may not sing - but the clear focus is to have a good time. Smoking (though it is currently changing) and even an occaisional drink is cool and accepted as it is among most of their parents. This group has major hoe-downs in the form of square dancing to a caller and perhaps a harmonica, accordian or Jew's Harp. Like the ultra-cons they are quite committed to the Amish way of life though some consider a less rigid life as a Plain Person who is allowed an automobile.(meaning they may consider becoming New Order Amish or Mennonite)
3. Are the WILD ones they will have plenty of alcohol, possibly drugs, hard rock and roll at their disposal. Most of these will get a car with no clear plans for the future. They get the media attention when their drunkness or drugs lands them in jail or fined with a DWI.
Natually, these groups have crossovers, but in my experience these three do exist quite clearly.
There is also a substancial difference between various districts and states. So the percentages would change some.