To be honest ... many have walked away w/ this notion throughout the movement whether they attended a con or moderate church or were/weren't told this explicitly
... some think that if they can't measure up and if the church they went to HAD ALL TRUTH ... then it's useless to go to any type of church... ever. They chalk themselves up to being UNSAVEABLE.
It's what I call a spiritual HOLOCAUST.
Very well said. This is very sad but true. I know many that will never return because they feel they will never measure up.