Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

[George]

Originally Posted by Neck

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The addictive behavior is a quest for true intimacy.

Intimacy will not be found ever solely in an act.

Intimacy is pure, honest, loving and without selfish motives.

Fullfilment comes in a union of peace, love and unity.

Many pursue the next act to try and restore intimacy and unity.

Intimacy is found in a full relationship before the act, during the act and after the act.

All the talk on this thread about this act, that act, these facts, those facts only avoid the relationship that should exist outside the act.

Move away from the act and look at the motive.

If there is true beauty or poetry in tendor intimacy.

It will not intimidate, frustrate, or denigrate it will illuminate and elevate.

She is not an object to be pandered at my will.

She is the desire of heart, before she is the desire of my desires.

We all have a love story, many have just forgotten that their are 2 characters in the story.

I am calling my pastor tomorrow and telling him he needs to hire you for all premarital counseling!

WOW! Another excellent post, Neck. So many good lines in this one post! I'm particularly drawn to the last sentence I put in bold print. Too many have strayed from the desire of heart and pursued selfish desires.

[Neck]

Originally Posted by George

I am calling my pastor tomorrow and telling him he needs to hire you for all premarital counseling!

WOW! Another excellent post, Neck. So many good lines in this one post! I'm particularly drawn to the last sentence I put in bold print. Too many have strayed from the desire of heart and pursued selfish desires.

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The interesting thing about my thoughts.

They were not read in Men are from Mars, Woman are from venus.

They have been lived and cherished in my personal relationship with my wife and mother of my children..

I do not define my relationship with my wife or my wife as a battlefield that is summed up by conquest.

It is defined by mutual respect, understanding, forgiveness, and trust.

I remember asking my girlfriend a question.

A question that was asked even before... will you marry me?

I simply asked her... Will you be the mother of my Children?

It was not about marriage where so many view marriage as a contract.

It was asking for a bond that would bring us together for the rest of our lives.

With that as a starting point and not just birthdates in time.

We often find ourselves remembering together that conversation.

I have always taken my wife back to these private and intimate moments.

They put a pure perspective on our busy lives.

We made a committment to each other.

The problem with so many couples they make a committment without building the relationship or safe guards to protect the relationship.

Why do so many people call sex making Love.

Sex does not make love, It expresses Love!

When expressing Love you do not act Love.

Here is a poem that I wrote in 2003.

It has been published....

Scent of Love


There is beauty in the forest;
When the tree's are grown and fare.
There is beauty in the meadows;
When wild flowers scent the air.
There is beauty in the sun-light.
Those Soft blue beams above;
Oh! The world is full of beauty;
When for you my heart is full of Love!


Copyright ©2003 Nathan Alan Eckstadt

[George]

Originally Posted by Neck

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The interesting thing about my thoughts.

They were not read in Men are from Mars, Woman are from venus.

They have been lived and cherished in my personal relationship with my wife and mother of my children..

I do not define my relationship with my wife or my wife as a battlefield that is summed up by conquest.

It is defined by mutual respect, understanding, forgiveness, and trust.

I remember asking my girlfriend a question.

A question that was asked even before... will you marry me?

I simply asked her... Will you be the mother of my Children?

It was not about marriage where so many view marriage as a contract.

It was asking for a bond that would bring us together for the rest of our lives.

With that as a starting point and not just birthdates in time.

We often find ourselves remembering together that conversation.

I have always taken my wife back to these private and intimate moments.

They put a pure perspective on our busy lives.

We made a committment to each other.

The problem with so many couples they make a committment without building the relationship or safe guards to protect the relationship.

Why do so many people call sex making Love.

Sex does not make love, It expresses Love!

When expressing Love you do not act Love.

Here is a poem that I wrote in 2003.

It has been published....

Scent of Love


There is beauty in the forest;
When the tree's are grown and fare.
There is beauty in the meadows;
When wild flowers scent the air.
There is beauty in the sun-light.
Those Soft blue beams above;
Oh! The world is full of beauty;
When for you my heart is full of Love!


Copyright ©2003 Nathan Alan Eckstadt

Great poem! Awesome post.