Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Falla39

No, I am not just an old fuddy-duddy that is now too old to enjoy LOVE-making!
I'm old/wise enough to dislike "sex". There really is a BIG difference! I believe in
settling for the best! Again, if it's LOVE, and the LOVE-making is motivated by True
Love, it will last a while, surely a week. What do we expect out of those who have
to serve in the military or work out of town. If we think we can't go a day without
sex, and act upon that type of thinking, it's not LOVE, it's ME, ME ME! That type of
thinking could wind up in a divorce.

Blessings,

Falla39

Sister Falla,
I appreciate everything you have said and agree with most of what you have said. I am wondering about the paragraph above. A whole week? I could see someone that is in the military or working out of town doing that out of necessity. But, are you talking about two people at home together every day? When you live together, love each other, etc., etc., how can a week go by with no intimacy? Did I misunderstand you?

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Sister Falla,
I appreciate everything you have said and agree with most of what you have said. I am wondering about the paragraph above. A whole week? I could see someone that is in the military or working out of town doing that out of necessity. But, are you talking about two people at home together every day? When you live together, love each other, etc., etc., how can a week go by with no intimacy? Did I misunderstand you?

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

I agree on the night or two. I thought she said a whole week. That would be pushing it.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I agree on the night or two. I thought she said a whole week. That would be pushing it.

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

[tamor]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

[Falla39]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

Thank you, Sis. Renda,

That's exactly what I was speaking of. The thread seemed to promote
the idea of having sex every night. Sex three times a night and five on
the weekend doesn't necessarily mean it "true love". What about the
little mother with two or three little ones under five yrs. old. What about
the little pregnant mother in the latter stages of her pregnancy. There
are a lot of things which can be considered and should be. There is many
times a lack of appreciation for the little wife that works just as hard on
a job, yet she is expected to go home, cook, clean, etc.,etc., and then
perform in the bedroom as if she had done nothing all day. THAT IS NOT
True Love either!!! Love does NOT DEMAND or THREATEN. LOVE is KIND
and GENTLE.....and CONSIDERATE!

Hugs,

Falla39

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Falla39

Thank you, Sis. Renda,

That's exactly what I was speaking of. The thread seemed to promote
the idea of having sex every night. Sex three times a night and five on
the weekend doesn't necessarily mean it "true love". What about the
little mother with two or three little ones under five yrs. old. What about
the little pregnant mother in the latter stages of her pregnancy. There
are a lot of things which can be considered and should be. There is many
times a lack of appreciation for the little wife that works just as hard on
a job, yet she is expected to go home, cook, clean, etc.,etc., and then
perform in the bedroom as if she had done nothing all day. THAT IS NOT
True Love either!!! Love does NOT DEMAND or THREATEN. LOVE is KIND
and GENTLE.....and CONSIDERATE!

Hugs,

Falla39

I see what you are saying. Most of our posts involve our personal situations, which don't always include being pregnant or raising children.

Good post, Sister Falla! I appreciate all of your wise words and counsel!!

[Falla39]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I see what you are saying. Most of our posts involve our personal situations, which don't always include being pregnant or raising children.

Good post, Sister Falla! I appreciate all of your wise words and counsel!!

Thank you, Sis. Pressing-On,

If everyone in the world had a marriage like me, what kind of a world
would this world be.

But unfortunately, everyone does not and that is many times who God
is reaching for. Those who need someone just to talk about it.

I have spent hours on some of my posts on this forum because I was
stirred by the Holy Spirit to say something. Going over and over and
being sensitive to His Spirit to say only what HE would have me say.
You wouldn't believe the ones I minimized and saved for a while until
I was sure it was what He wanted me to say. He has been working with
me for a long time, teaching me so that I might be able to encourage
or administer help or hope to a hurting soul.

For over ten years I had been waiting for God to open a door that I
felt He was wanting to open to me. An effectual door of opportunity
to work for Him. The door didn't open but I have realized that He uses
other things besides doors to get His work done. Sometimes HE uses a
window! He opened a window of opportunity.... .WINDOWS XP!!!
At least for the time being!

Blessings,

Falla39

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Falla39

Thank you, Sis. Pressing-On,

If everyone in the world had a marriage like me, what kind of a world
would this world be.

But unfortunately, everyone does not and that is many times who God
is reaching for. Those who need someone just to talk about it.

I have spent hours on some of my posts on this forum because I was
stirred by the Holy Spirit to say something. Going over and over and
being sensitive to His Spirit to say only what HE would have me say.
You wouldn't believe the ones I minimized and saved for a while until
I was sure it was what He wanted me to say. He has been working with
me for a long time, teaching me so that I might be able to encourage
or administer help or hope to a hurting soul.

For over ten years I had been waiting for God to open a door that I
felt He was wanting to open to me. An effectual door of opportunity
to work for Him. The door didn't open but I have realized that He uses
other things besides doors to get His work done. Sometimes HE uses a
window! He opened a window of opportunity.... .WINDOWS XP!!!
At least for the time being!

Blessings,

Falla39

Amen!! You have been a very valuable contributor to this Forum, Sister Falla!! We all love you greatly!!!!