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Old 11-22-2008, 05:58 PM
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Re: Do you choose what you believe in?

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To not believe is a choice.
I'm running out to be "social"... so only have a moment... but would it be better to pretend to believe and maybe belief would eventually come (or return)? I just have a hard time trying to be something that I'm not...

by "choosing" to believe, then I am pretending to believe... does that make sense?
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Old 11-22-2008, 06:10 PM
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I'm running out to be "social"... so only have a moment... but would it be better to pretend to believe and maybe belief would eventually come (or return)? I just have a hard time trying to be something that I'm not...

by "choosing" to believe, then I am pretending to believe... does that make sense?
I don't think pretending to believe does any good. I think it causes an aggravation of the spirit. I think studying and searching is the best thing to do. But, I don't think advertising your questioning is good. Keeping it under your hat until you are more sure seems reasonable.
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Old 11-22-2008, 06:18 PM
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I'm running out to be "social"... so only have a moment... but would it be better to pretend to believe and maybe belief would eventually come (or return)? I just have a hard time trying to be something that I'm not...

by "choosing" to believe, then I am pretending to believe... does that make sense?
Yes it does, I do really understand. I have been there myself.
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Old 11-22-2008, 06:23 PM
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I'm running out to be "social"... so only have a moment... but would it be better to pretend to believe and maybe belief would eventually come (or return)? I just have a hard time trying to be something that I'm not...

by "choosing" to believe, then I am pretending to believe... does that make sense?
Do you want to believe there is a God who created all things?
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Old 11-22-2008, 06:24 PM
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Do you want to believe there is a God who created all things?
Maybe he just wants the truth, no matter what it is....
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Maybe he just wants the truth, no matter what it is....
Then he has/had the truth and is being led into gross error. IMHO
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Then he has/had the truth and is being led into gross error. IMHO
Nothing wrong with searching. Sometimes it opens your eyes to things you otherwise wouldn't know. Do you think this is just some sort of test and he should shut his mind off?
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Nothing wrong with searching. Sometimes it opens your eyes to things you otherwise wouldn't know. Do you think this is just some sort of test and he should shut his mind off?
I'm not sure what you mean by "shut his mind off".

I've been an atheist, been there, done that. Finding out that God existed was a true revelation to me and by the grace of God something I will never give up.

For someone to have tasted of the heavenly gift and then to turn away from it is to walk on dangerous ground. I don't know all that led to the state of mind he is in today but he is being led into a strong delusion. As for a test, our faith is always being tested. He shouldn't turn his mind off but resist all of the ideas that are contrary to Christ.

My question is...does he want to? Does he really want to hold onto his faith or push it aside and walk in unbelief? How can he deny the experiences that he had with God up to this point? Emotionalism?

As you can see, I've been convinced that what I believe is true and not by man but by God and His word. The truth that God exists and that He has been revealed to us through Jesus Christ is as real to me as this keyboard that I'm typing on. The journey which he is embarking on is doomed. There is no hope, no reason for morals, no purpose for existence, and if followed to its logical conclusion will lead to despair.
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I'm not sure what you mean by "shut his mind off".

I've been an atheist, been there, done that. Finding out that God existed was a true revelation to me and by the grace of God something I will never give up.

For someone to have tasted of the heavenly gift and then to turn away from it is to walk on dangerous ground. I don't know all that led to the state of mind he is in today but he is being led into a strong delusion. As for a test, our faith is always being tested. He shouldn't turn his mind off but resist all of the ideas that are contrary to Christ.

My question is...does he want to? Does he really want to hold onto his faith or push it aside and walk in unbelief? How can he deny the experiences that he had with God up to this point? Emotionalism?

As you can see, I've been convinced that what I believe is true and not by man but by God and His word. The truth that God exists and that He has been revealed to us through Jesus Christ is as real to me as this keyboard that I'm typing on. The journey which he is embarking on is doomed. There is no hope, no reason for morals, no purpose for existence, and if followed to its logical conclusion will lead to despair.
Mizpeh...I won't disagree with you on much here.

But, until a person has that experience. Their own experience, it's all just words.

I grew up in the church. For a lot of reasons, even after experiencing God for myself, I walked away. I don't regret my time away. I really don't. I learned so much about myself, about God, about humanity. I don't suggest people go wandering off just for some experience.

How do you know he's tasted of the heavenly gift? Growing up in church is no promise of that. And even if he has, maybe more so if he has, don't you trust God to keep him (assuming Q is a he...)?

I think the logical conclusion of questioning is to find answers. Not despair..but hope and peace and contentment. It's what I've finally found.
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My question is...does he want to? Does he really want to hold onto his faith or push it aside and walk in unbelief? How can he deny the experiences that he had with God up to this point? Emotionalism?
Emotionalism works. So does brain washing. So does "I don't know what it was but it's not for me." So does finding another frame of reference for those experiences.

All for awhile at least.
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