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Old 08-28-2009, 06:44 PM
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So we should set murderers and rapist free? Asking why we punish and how we punish is an important question. I doubt you really think that people shouldn't be punished.
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Nope, I never said anything about punishing. I said I was responding to the last part of your post where you questioned revenge.

Since you are pressing the issue of punishment with me, I would say there are consequences to our actions. If my child does something I said not to do, I would not use the word punish, but discipline. Discipline is supposed to train people, it has a purpose. I think of punishment as just making someone feel bad.
Gotta fix that last sentence... I think when people want to punish someone it is to make the person that did something to feel bad so that the person punishing can feel good. ;-)

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Incredible story-- my heart goes out to this poor girl.

What about the abductors wife!? She just stood by for 18 yrs watching this happen. I am so glad that she will be facing charges as well.

I just don't think they deserve any kind of trial, they should just be sent to prison for the rest of their lives period.

Don't worry Baron1710 would fight to his last breath to defend them in court.
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So we should set murderers and rapist free? Asking why we punish and how we punish is an important question. I doubt you really think that people shouldn't be punished.
Don't worry, they always have individuals like yourself waiting in the wings to insure that these people have a defence.
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Nope, I never said anything about punishing. I said I was responding to the last part of your post where you questioned revenge.

Since you are pressing the issue of punishment with me, I would say there are consequences to our actions. If my child does something I said not to do, I would not use the word punish, but discipline. Discipline is supposed to train people, it has a purpose. I think of punishment as just making someone feel bad.
Why we punish determines to a large extent how we punish. So how we answer those questions are important.

C.S. Lewis has a great article on why we punish.
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Better yet have them read your posts on AFF for a week straight, that would be punishment enough for anyone.
And just think you have it right now.
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Don't worry, they always have individuals like yourself waiting in the wings to insure that these people have a defence.
Yep, that would be cruel and unusual punishment anyway.
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Why we punish determines to a large extent how we punish. So how we answer those questions are important.

C.S. Lewis has a great article on why we punish.
He must be reading it in hell to Screwtape.
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He must be reading it in hell to Screwtape.

Classless. But not unexpected from you.
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Classless. But not unexpected from you.
It's the truth.

Oh, and lighten up tough guy.

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It's the truth.

Oh, and lighten up tough guy.

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Is it? perhaps you have been there and seen him?
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