Bro. Chan,
We ARE told in
Galatians 6:2, "Bear ye one another's burdens, and
so fulfil the law of Christ". Two verses later we told, " For every man
shall bear his own burden".
It might be thought to be contradictory. So it has to be rightly
divided. I believe vs. 2 is telling us to care and prayfully give
support to one another in times of difficulty whether it be
sickness or other difficult times. Especially prayer support and
encouragement!
Vs. 5, perhaps would be speaking more of a man's burden as to be his
responsibility, as to his family. His wife and children. That's his own
"burden", to see they are cared for. They have been entrusted to him.
What a man/woman births is their "baby"! Their burden or responsibility!
Many time it seems there are those that feel it is the church's or even
maybe just the pastor's duty, to come up with the answers to their own
personal problems or situations. To me fathers and mothers
need to learn how to go to God for themselves and their family.
There are elders, men and women that are useful in the church. Read
I Tim. 5:1-2. There are many answers in the Word of God but you have to
read the "Instruction Book" if you want things to turn out right. If you don't
understand it, talk to the Author!!
Just some thoughts from a senior sister!
Blessings,
Falla39