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Originally Posted by Praxeas
I know people that left the org or our local church or standards etc etc and they never got mistreated by me. Once again the sweeping generalization spirit is alive and well 
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Praxes,
It is easy for you to say it is a sweeping generalization. I can assure you that it is in fact something that happens a lot. Over and over again.
It is endemic in old time Pentecost. People are immeresed in legalism and misapplication of scriptures and it becomes the barometer by which they judge all others. That is only nautral within that kind of culture and belief system.
I learned this the hard way. Way back in the beginning of 1983 when I moved my young family to Austin Texas to attend Kenneth Phillips church I was shocked at the response we got.
I quickly discovered that many folks I thought were friends were merely acquaitances because once we lost the common bond of being UPC they treated us like pariah.
My wifes home church that had always been so welcoming, having her sing and me testify every time we visited suddenly ignored our presence when we visited. People all around us would be acknowledged and recognized but not us. After service of course the pastor was his usual friendly self. (footnote - after being at KP's for about seven years my wifes pastor finally decided we were not "coming home" to the UPC and actually started recognizing us again when we visited.
What I am describing is something that is hard to see when you are immeresed in the culture but once you are out of it and ostracized you start seeing things objectively and in a whole new light.
I have heard the process of dealing with all of this as deprogramming and I agree. I found myself for years instinctively judging peopole I met by how they looked. Did the guy have hair over his ears? Oh, then he must be backslid or not in church! This was long after intellectually and spiritually I came to an understanding that the UPC dress code was not biblical.
It can be denied all day and night long but if you don't think psychological conditioning is a huge part of old time Pentecost you are deluded.