When I think of the song, "Tears Are A Language God Understands"
I think of
John 10:35 where it says that Jesus wept.
And I think of Him grieving along with His friends.
I think of
Isaiah 53 where it says that He is a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.
and I think of
Isaiah 63:7-10 where it speaks of God being afflicted along with His people in their affliction and how He actually carried them.