Better Safe Than Sorry?

[MrMasterMind]

The other side of the equation of better safe than sorry:

what can I get away with and be saved.


This is the problem with the rulebook mentality, as opposed to relationship.

The rulebook looks down and says "What do I have to do", relationship looks up and says "How can I express my love"

An analogy: which is the better?

"Honey I really want to be in a relationship with you, what is the least I can do and get by, for example just how much can I flirt with other people and get away with it"

or

"Honey I love you so much if there is anything I can do to express it let me know, and if there is anything I even think will give you discomfort you won't even have to ask"

Human nature is to see how close I can get to the edge, to seek loopholes in the law.

True love seeks how can I please, even if means going above and beyond.