Oneness and Acts 2:38

[robogreg_2000]

I have a very close friend who has been an apostolic preacher for a very L-O-N-G time ! He preached Boldly that EVERYONE who is not Baptized in Jesus name and has not spoken in tongues is going to hell without exception!!!!!! He even said that there was not one saved person in the 8 million member Church of God in Christ! Guess what!!!!! His mother passed last November and his daughter passed in February. Both of them belonged to trinitarian organizations .His mother spoke in tongues but his daughter had never spoken in tongues! He now says that both of them are in heaven. When countered by his oneness friends because neither his mother or daughter had been baptized in Jesus name, he said that is not the point they are in heaven! He says that he has the assurance in his heart that they are with the Lord! My question is How can it be that people change their doctrine when their relatives die who have not been baptized in Jesus name! If his mother and daughter can get into heaven without Baptism in Jesus name,how could a holy and just God not allow EVERYONE into heaven whether they are baptized in Jesus name or not?