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Old 12-15-2007, 02:02 PM
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Saved Without A Pastor??

Can a person be saved without a Pastor?

I have been reading the threads on salvation that have been up lately and I just want to scream....You can go thru every step that is out there and your salvation is still unsure......There is really know way to know if you are saved or not.

I am only going off my experience in attending a UPC church all of my life. Absolute submission to the Pastor was KEY to your salvation. If you felt God leading you in a certain way on a "matter" you still needed to have the approval of the Pastor, if they didn't think it was right they expected you to follow there opinion and yes, your salvation was at stake....there are so many weird mind games that were played....and they are all tied into salvation, if you don't adhere to what they wanted then you are in rebellion, and we know that nobody will make it to heaven in a rebellious state!

I have been away from that influence for several years. I have a real concern for family that is still in the church. I am very aware of the "Godly Fear" they live in. They are not sure of there salvation. They don't think on thier own....they think through a filter of "What would my pastor think"..not what would God think....
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Old 12-15-2007, 02:47 PM
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Can a person be saved without a Pastor?

I have been reading the threads on salvation that have been up lately and I just want to scream....You can go thru every step that is out there and your salvation is still unsure......There is really know way to know if you are saved or not.

I am only going off my experience in attending a UPC church all of my life. Absolute submission to the Pastor was KEY to your salvation. If you felt God leading you in a certain way on a "matter" you still needed to have the approval of the Pastor, if they didn't think it was right they expected you to follow there opinion and yes, your salvation was at stake....there are so many weird mind games that were played....and they are all tied into salvation, if you don't adhere to what they wanted then you are in rebellion, and we know that nobody will make it to heaven in a rebellious state!

I have been away from that influence for several years. I have a real concern for family that is still in the church. I am very aware of the "Godly Fear" they live in. They are not sure of there salvation. They don't think on thier own....they think through a filter of "What would my pastor think"..not what would God think....
I think we all need a pastor, just not to that extent.
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Old 12-15-2007, 03:21 PM
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I think we all need a pastor, just not to that extent.
Do you think you need a pastor to maintiain your salvation?
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Old 12-15-2007, 03:50 PM
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Our salvation is based on His Grace. Nothing more, nothing less. I can do nothing to obtain my salvation. I can maintain my salvation by following the principles set forth in the Word of God. I can maintain my salvation by keeping myself unspotted from the world and by following the leadership of the Holy Spirit.

That being said... God placed certain ministries in the church that are designed to give us teaching to help us maintain our salvation. Those 5 ministries are listed in Eph 4 and were instituted by God for the reasons given in that same chapter. Those ministries, including that of "pastor", are for our benefit. We are perfected, not by the pastor or the evangelist, but by the Truth they teach. Remember it is the Truth that sets us free. The Body of Christ is edified, again, not by the teacher or prophet, but by the Word they bring. Any preacher, Pastor, Evangelist or District Superintendent that is worth a plug nickle will tell you they are mere servants to the Church. They are but Messengers. It is not THEY THEMSELVES who do anything...it is the Word of God they teach that benefits us. If a pastor says we can't be saved without them , then he no pastor at all. He is a Wolf in Sheeps Clothing. A lord over God's heritage. A real, God-ordained pastor won't tell you that. He will only tell you that you can not be saved without Jesus. He will point you to the Word.

We need the 5 fold ministry as never before. We need the pastor to help to strengthen our relationship with the Lord. I can't say we'd be lost without a pastor... but I can say this...our walk with the Lord would be a lot rougher... a lot more treacherous, if not for the ministry of the Pastor, as well as the other ministry gifts.

What the present day church needs to hear is the call of the Prophet. Not these self-appointed Kim Clements, but real God called prophets whose message agrees with what the Spirit is saying in these last days.
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Old 12-15-2007, 03:53 PM
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ALL pastors are hinderances and one should never have a pastor they will only abuse you and you will get hurt. Instead get your instructions from forum gurus that have never built a church.
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ALL pastors are hinderances and one should never have a pastor they will only abuse you and you will get hurt. Instead get your instructions from forum gurus that have never built a church.
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We need the 5 fold ministry as never before. We need the pastor to help to strengthen our relationship with the Lord. I can't say we'd be lost without a pastor... but I can say this...our walk with the Lord would be a lot rougher... a lot more treacherous, if not for the ministry of the Pastor, as well as the other ministry gifts.
I've been trying to answer this all day (lol..ok my sense of time is warped, I have NO demands on my time today and it's showing I guess) and this comes about as close to what I've been trying to say as anything I've typed yet.

You don't need a pastor to be saved. You need Jesus. But, you need support and accountability. I know some who have managed to live for God for a time without a pastor or a church. I didn't do such a good job of that though. I'll never take for granted the keeping power of a pastor and a church family. But I don't look to my pastor for salvation either.
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Old 12-15-2007, 04:36 PM
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The pastor, like all ministries, is nothing more than a maintenance man. They didn't save us, nor can they keep us saved. All they do is provide us with the tools (The Word) to help us stay in God's Grace. They are, in fact, invaluable in keeping us running!
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Can a person be saved without a Pastor?

I have been reading the threads on salvation that have been up lately and I just want to scream....You can go thru every step that is out there and your salvation is still unsure......There is really know way to know if you are saved or not.
Hi Harmony. You really bring up some important points. That nagging doubt about one's own salvation and the doubts about the salvation of others still plagues Christian fellowship after 2,000 years.

From reading the history of Charles Parham, the man who introduced the teaching of "Holy Ghost baptism evidenced by speaking in other tongues..." I'm getting the impression that he was plagued by many of the same questions. This is why he spent years trying to get the "evidence" to operate.
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I am only going off my experience in attending a UPC church all of my life. Absolute submission to the Pastor was KEY to your salvation. If you felt God leading you in a certain way on a "matter" you still needed to have the approval of the Pastor, if they didn't think it was right they expected you to follow there opinion and yes, your salvation was at stake....there are so many weird mind games that were played....and they are all tied into salvation, if you don't adhere to what they wanted then you are in rebellion, and we know that nobody will make it to heaven in a rebellious state!
Putting such confidence in one man is often a formula for error. I too was brought up with that mind set. After high school when I wanted to go to college, I asked my pastor about it. He angrily denounced college as a breeding ground for "secular humanism." So I didn't go to college.

I met K.H., the president of an Apostolic Bible school and I was determined then to go to CLC. When I brought the idea to my pastor, he at first approved and then after consulting with some of his friends he came back and told me, "That K.H. has a real problem with compromise..." so I went to another, struggling Bible School. That school closed down at least twice in the one year that I was there and the president got tangled up in a fraud indictment (he was later cleared).

The funny thing is; over the years, with just one exception, everyone else who came out of the same church went to CLC with the pastor's blessing! And none of them really sought his advice, they just told him where they wanted to go and had him sign the approval. And, almost all of that same pastor's children went on to secular colleges, a couple getting advanced degrees. I asked his son about it once and he rather sympathetically told me, (words to the effect) "You've got to be responsible for your own future."

So, "playing by the rules" cost me when it came to obedience to the pastor. Many of our pastors just aren't trained or educated. We run some terrible risks by listening to them and taking their advice at times.
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I have been away from that influence for several years. I have a real concern for family that is still in the church. I am very aware of the "Godly Fear" they live in. They are not sure of there salvation. They don't think on thier own....they think through a filter of "What would my pastor think"..not what would God think....
This is truly a sad state of affairs and it is responsible for the divisions that hinder the growth of Apostolic churches. The pastors should be equipping people to think for themselves.

I truly believe that pastors will have to give an account for the souls that God has sent their way (Hebrews 13:17). We take that scripture in an authoritarian way, which will cost some pastors dearly on the day of reckoning. When the pastor gives "an order" that is to be "obeyed" he should really be giving "tools" that will enable a saint to apply unchanging principles in an ever changing world.

If the only "tool" the saint has is "because the pastor said so...!" then most likely that pastor will suffer grief at the time of accounting.
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Do you think you need a pastor to maintiain your salvation?
I don't think you do (see Steve Epley's words of wisdom above!). He's one of our forum gurus here and often has sage and wizened counsel.

But irony aside, we all should seek personal human relationships where we are accountable for our behavior and lives. This is one very important purpose of a church. We don't need to go through the "confessional" routine like Catholic churches- and even some Protestant churches do.

But we need feedback. We need fellowship. We need examples of good conduct that we can model. A good pastor(s) fills this role. We need pastors. The criticisms that you will hear often come from people (and pastors!) who have had bad experiences.

Also, in my mind, the role of a pastor in the Apostolic Faith movement has not been founded correctly. This situation will cause more bad experiences for both pastors and saints, but it is not cause to throw out the Biblical office of a pastor. The problems I perceive are with us, not with Biblical pastors.
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