The Husband is the Head of the Wife

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Well, that does hit close to home. So, we have two sides. The women that call me are confessing they are lazy and you are getting calls of abuse.

I can totally see that there are two sides. It is a shame.

When a man abuses a woman and she finds comfort in another, well, I can't blame her, unless her husband straightens up his act and does a turn around there is no hope in that situation.

That's not what I was explaining......re-read it.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

That's not what I was explaining......re-read it.

I was focusing on the abuse. He sounds like an idiot.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I was focusing on the abuse. He sounds like an idiot.

Lol...basically.

[ILG]

I was speaking about how a woman can be called a whore, but a man can get up and keep doing his thang. That has never changed, IMO.

There is some truth that people do think that way.

It's also ridiculous to blame the "UPC women" on a man's sexual promiscuity. As I am sure men are to blame in many ways, but I've talked with a lot of women that are not doing their job correctly. They can't stand around crying in their milk and saying, "I was so tired, kids, etc." That's women in general, not just UPC women.

Women are never to blame for a man's promiscuity. She may contribute to his decision by being "unaccessible" but she isn't the one who decided to be promiscuous.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by ILG

There is some truth that people do think that way.



Women are never to blame for a man's promiscuity. She may contribute to his decision by being "unaccessible" but she isn't the one who decided to be promiscuous.

Contributing is kinda the blame, IMO. I wouldn't blame my husband if I didn't take care of him and someone else wanted to because I know it is what I need to and want to do.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Contributing is kinda the blame, IMO. I wouldn't blame my husband if I didn't take care of him and someone else wanted to because I know it is what I need to and want to do.

What if you are taking care of him, yet he has a insatiable desire? Would you blame him then?

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

What if you are taking care of him, yet he has a insatiable desire? Would you blame him then?

He's into porn and yes I would. If I was sincerely taking care of him and not just going through the motions because both can tell, yes, I would blame him.

I also wouldn't let him ever touch me again for fear of STD's. If we worked it out and he got checked, then I would be O.K.

Just random thoughts. Who knows what anyone would do? I think my husband would be afraid of murder and wouldn't ever try it. I would first of all rip the house apart and then start on him.