This cracks me up...if you are not legally divorced...you are married last time I heard. There was a statement made, I don't remember who said it...but they alluded to the fact that adultery broke the marriage covenant making the other party free to do as they please. Not so. Just because a person commits adultery doesn't mean the spouse is now free to hit the single's circuit.
They are still married and should do whatever it takes to keep the marriage together...remember Hosea?
Blessings, Rhoni
P.S. I reported a man on the Apostolic Singles Network who was making all kinds of moves on all kinds of females who were single. He was married and until the divorce is final...still married and any fooling around with others still constitutes as adultery. Separated is NOT divorced.
Rhoni, don't believe for a single moment I condone either Divorce or Adultery. Sometimes the train wreck is gonna happen and nothing can be done about it. I think HO has been transparent before about this.
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Rhoni, don't believe for a single moment I condone either Divorce or Adultery. Sometimes the train wreck is gonna happen and nothing can be done about it. I think HO has been transparent before about this.
For someone who also has been through a divorce, I don't think Rhoni is in a positon to talk either.
But I wouldn't dare be judgmental about a situation I know nothing about and suggest that she should have done something to keep her marriage together, as if it's all her fault.
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My husband and I are always together....well, unless he is in Iraq, or some "other" world.
When we are actually physically apart, we maintain as much contact as humanly possible due to the circumstances, and I continue praying (more or less without ceasing).
I too can say we have fun together.
We laugh often, cry a little, (due to being away) and pray together.
We have the same desire in God, and that is to work for Him, and to enjoy our children, and someday, way down the road, enjoy and spoil grandchildren.
I do pray for you and your husband as distance of many miles and danger.
My wife told me that I have made her laugh everyday we have been together.
I told her today, that everyday.
I say wow, she is an awesome person!
The trials of our son's illness has shown me that she is much stronger than I in so many ways.....
There have been friends, church folks and co-workers who have asked us how we do it...
My answer has always been we have a common goal and it includes being together to reach that goal....
I read about your son's illness on another thread, and you all are so blessed.
We understand illness.
We almost lost our little one..well, the doctor said she was already gone, but God had a different plan, and she lived, and is now a healthy, happy 5 yr old.
God is very good to us!
Wow! Thanks God your daughter! Here is a link to my Son's website. It follow his experiences from before his Bone Marrow Transplant to the present time.
God is a great God.
Many folks ask us how we do it.
We have to trust God everyday.
At the end of everyday we have each other...
God bless you and your family this Christmas season.
Also it is a small thing, but let you husband know that our family respects his service to our country.
I'm not sure if you are referring to me or the person you are speaking about in the first paragraph, but if it's me, you should know what you are talking about in regard to my situation before making such a comment.
If you aren't talking about me, well, good.
Girl,
I have no idea about your situation and would never presume. I think many of us are writing at the same time and posting without seeing the one before it. I apologize if you think I was talking about your situation.
Rhoni, don't believe for a single moment I condone either Divorce or Adultery. Sometimes the train wreck is gonna happen and nothing can be done about it. I think HO has been transparent before about this.
I am not sure where the lines got crossed up, but I did not presume about your feelings regarding divorce or adultery nor do I know anything about HO and her situation.
To clarify:
I just was making the comment that to date before one is divorced is adultery. You are not divorced until the law tells you so. God's law agrees with this.
People who are legally separated are not legally divorced and should abstain from dating.
OOOO baby let's go back to our bedroom and eat m&m's all night long!!!
He's NOT being romantic! He is just trying to make me SHARE my chocolate and he knows I AM NOT going to share. He's trying to look like the GOOD guy here and I AM NOT falling for it! LOL IT's MY CHOCOLATE!!!
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Originally Posted by Pastor G
She forgot to add eating chocolate in bed watching a football game... There is that better???
Now that sounds more like LordChocolate! LOL
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*sigh* I did nothing yesterday.... I wasn't finished so I did nothing again today!