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Originally Posted by Rhoni
Well many don't tell you that or they say they are self-employed...I usually give a guy three dates. By then I just know  Most I give 1. 
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Rhoni,
I just counseled a friend he was 42 when he got married. He worked in my field of sales Telecommunications.
He has earned on average for the past 15 years over 100K.
He was divorced once back 12 years ago.
He was married 6 months she cheated on him with a former boyfriend.
It hurt him so much he stopped trusting and dating.
We met about 8 years ago when working together.
He kept telling my wife you restore the fact to me that there are good women out there.
He met his wife a couple of years ago.
She was 37 and 5 years younger.
She a High school teacher.
Never married and very professional.
So when they started to get serious.
My friend Paul told me.
I don't want to sound weird but I want to share my financial position with her if she will share her's with me.
I told him he should tell her anytime she wants to know all of his finances they should sit down together.
When she told her dad about this request.
He told her right on the spot, he is a keeper.
The story ended up, He had a net worth of $600,000.00 her with $300,000.00.
They are married own 2 homes paid off and she is trying to have a baby.
They do not have a car payment, mortgage payment.
So they can have her take 5 years off and keep up her schooling.
Without having to use their investments.
Never date a deadbeat!
Nathan