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Old 08-31-2014, 02:04 PM
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Lifestyle, sweetie. He wants to be with a man and be saved.
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Old 08-31-2014, 02:09 PM
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Lifestyle, sweetie. He wants to be with a man and be saved.
To know God is to come to desire what He desires. It's difficult to have a relationship without knowing Him. The more time you spend with Him, the more what you want will line up with His will.

Basically, you can't love God with the totality of everything you are if you're unwilling to surrender even one area of your life to Him and His guidance, direction and parameters. 95%=/=100%. God's love for him won't change, it's not less and will never be more, but he can only serve to the depth that he is willing to surrender.
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:08 PM
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Well, why can't he remain gay and serve God? Why can't he praise the Lord and be gay? Do you mean lifestyle or condition of being? Lifestyle or "why can't he love a man"? Because God says it's not ok. Condition of being? God can change that, but that doesn't mean He will....and I don't believe a person is precluded from serving God just because of a condition of being. If you go to bed at night asking God to take it away...and wake up with nothing changed, you can still praise God because God's worth hasn't decreased because of your present condition. If he can't praise God because he's gay, then no one can praise God and that's not the message in the Bible.
He can praise God all he wants. If he does not OBEY God he will be cast into Hellfire.

This is the teaching of the Holy Spirit. He opposes sin. Sin is defined by whatever he says sin is.
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:20 PM
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He can praise God all he wants. If he does not OBEY God he will be cast into Hellfire.

This is the teaching of the Holy Spirit. He opposes sin. Sin is defined by whatever he says sin is.
Ok..? Show me where I said otherwise.
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:49 PM
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He's been looking for a church. He's been praying. He knows that it is wrong. He wants to know why? He has always been gay. Everyone in his life knows he's gay. He wants to know why he can't remain gay and serve God, why he can't praise The Lord and be gay? He asked why he can't love a man.

He hasn't disagreed that it's wrong. He wants to know why it's wrong.
Why can't we be fornicators and be saved?

Ultimately, we must decide who defines morality: the individual, society or God. If God, then we must accept what and how he has communicated his will to us- the Bible. He does not always provide an answer for "why?", but we can know from the totality of the Bible's message that God is love and his motivation towards us is love.
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:54 PM
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Re: Homosexuality question

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He's been looking for a church. He's been praying. He knows that it is wrong. He wants to know why? He has always been gay. Everyone in his life knows he's gay. He wants to know why he can't remain gay and serve God, why he can't praise The Lord and be gay? He asked why he can't love a man.

He hasn't disagreed that it's wrong. He wants to know why it's wrong.
BTW, for the record, I don't believe anyone has always been gay. Memory is Tricky.

When I was a child I did not know I was heterosexual. They were just girls to me.

I believe for the most part how we are raised and early life events play a huge role in whether or not we become "gay"
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:55 PM
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Re: Homosexuality question

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Well, why can't he remain gay and serve God? Why can't he praise the Lord and be gay? Do you mean lifestyle or condition of being? Lifestyle or "why can't he love a man"? Because God says it's not ok. Condition of being? God can change that, but that doesn't mean He will....and I don't believe a person is precluded from serving God just because of a condition of being. If you go to bed at night asking God to take it away...and wake up with nothing changed, you can still praise God because God's worth hasn't decreased because of your present condition. If he can't praise God because he's gay, then no one can praise God and that's not the message in the Bible.
I've known men that have. I knew one guy that gave up his feelings for God. I don't know that he ever lost the feelings 100%.

Feelings are often just suppressed, not gone
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  4. That Jesus name baptism is the only biblical mode of water baptism.
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Old 08-31-2014, 03:58 PM
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Re: Homosexuality question

So anyways...as I said the Reason is that it goes contrary to God's order of Creation for man.
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Old 08-31-2014, 04:17 PM
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Re: Homosexuality question

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BTW, for the record, I don't believe anyone has always been gay. Memory is Tricky.

When I was a child I did not know I was heterosexual. They were just girls to me.

I believe for the most part how we are raised and early life events play a huge role in whether or not we become "gay"
There you go

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Old 08-31-2014, 04:20 PM
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YOu don't need any other reason than the bible says so.
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