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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa
I think it's more of female leading the man down the road called confusion. No offense to the well meaning couple. But, in their video we have the issue of "race" then something about female "pastor?" How that all got thrown together was not exactly made clear. But, the pastor and his wife, might just be the pastor and his pastor.
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Is the A/P movement seeing a rise in feminists? How many are there like this couple, where the woman is the dominate spouse and the Minister/husband is a yes man, nodding along meekly to whatever his spouse says?
This may seem odd, but I saw a connection between the woman in the video and what I read from a recent Lady Gaga speech:
"""I spent a lot of time thinking about what I wanted to say tonight.
How does one rise to such an occasion when maybe you don't feel that inside? How does one accept where life has brought them and what it all means?
As I tried on dress after dress today, getting ready for this event, one tight corset after another, one heel after another, a diamond, a feather, thousands of beaded fabrics in the most beautiful silks in the world... to be honest? I felt sick to my stomach.
And I asked myself, what does it really mean to be a woman in Hollywood? We are not just objects to entertain the world. We are not simply images to bring smiles or grimaces to people's faces. We are not members of a giant beauty pageant to be pit against one another for the pleasures of the public.
We women in Hollywood, we have voices. We have deep thoughts and ideas and beliefs and values about the world, and we have the power to speak and be heard and fight back when we are silenced.
So after trying on ten or so dresses, with a sad feeling in my heart that all would matter was what I wore to this red carpet, I saw an oversized Marc Jacobs suit very quietly in the corner. I put it on, to a resounding view of eyes glaring at me in confusion. "But the Rodarte was so beautiful!" one said. "But the Raf Simons for Calvin Klein was so stunning on you! sad another.
"But what about the Braden Maxwell? What about the Dior?" Lots of questions.
They were all dresses. This was an oversized men's suit made for a woman. Not a gown. And then I began to cry.
In this suit, I felt like me today. In this suit, I felt the truth of who I am well up in my gut. And then, wondering what I wanted to say tonight became very clear to me.
As a sexual assault survivor by someone in the entertainment industry, as a woman who is still not brave enough to say his name, as a woman who lives with chronic pain, as a woman who was conditioned at a very young age to listen to what men told me to do, I decided today I wanted to take the power back. Today, I wear the pants."""
Change some of the wording, and that is what I hear from the woman in the video. What she talks about during her reading bit on the video is modern feminism. She talks about having a seat at the table, not just being invited.
This is more than whatever alleged "systemic" racism they claim to have experienced. The second video about gender equality proves it.