Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

[TRFrance]

There's a couple of really good (bad?) puns I could come up with, to add a little levity to the conversation.

But... lets just say, not everyone would be amused.
So I'll behave myself.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by TRFrance

There's a couple of really good (bad?) puns I could come up with, to add a little levity to the conversation.

But... lets just say, not everyone would be amused.
So I'll behave myself.

[rgcraig]

This thread makes the Hairspray thread look like a walk in the park!

[Neck]

The conversation being discussed on this thread.

Is one of or if not the most personal and defining intimate conversation between husband and wife or wife and husband.

While working in sales over the years, I have heard it all.

Men bragging and just talking about all sorts of adventures with their wives, girlfriends and extra marriage experiences.

In all of those years, I have wondered why these men talk so freely about these things?

Are they bragging? Are they missing the boat? Are they wanting to justify themselves?

To me it is a form of intimacy cheating on their spouse.

Relations with a spouse are personal, honest, pure, loving, mutual, caring, respectful, spiritual (in a non salvational sense), memorable and the last mile of intimacy.

Way to many people invite their extended family, friends and others into this intimacy.

This place of intimacy is one that no other individual should ever have an open door.

Long before 2 people cheat in the act.

They cheat in the doorway of adultery.

These men and woman share these intimate thouughts, desires etc.

With others because they do not have a pure intimacy with their spouse.

I would not share with anyone on this forum what I am against or for in my marriage.

What I do know is an abomination in the eyes of God in my marriage.

Is acting outside my marriage and intimacy bond.

My wife has also heard it all from her friends over the years.

This bond needs to built on the trust of ultimate intimacy....

[Jermyn Davidson]

So Neck, were you at General Conference in 1998?

[Neck]

Originally Posted by 1399

So Neck, were you at General Conference in 1998?

I go to a non UPCI Oneness Church.

The last conference I went to was Milw, WI.

Which is where I live.

What year was it in Milw?

Did they suggest something different?

[Jermyn Davidson]

Originally Posted by Neck

I go to a non UPCI Oneness Church.

The last conference I went to was Milw, WI.

Which is where I live.

What year was it in Milw?

Did they suggest something different?

I don't know much about Milwaukee, other than I want to go there one day.


It was at a General Conference in Greensboro where a preacher "intruded" into that territory. It was a general service. He condemned "sodomy" between singles and marrieds. His definition of the word fits Merriam-Webster. But how does the Bible define "sodomy?"

He has not been the only one that has made their opinion known-- each time the Christian meant nothing but the best for expressing their opinion.

I was trying to determine the Bible's response to the subject, for married folks.

I guess there aren't enough Bible scholars that have cared to research it.

[George]

Originally Posted by Neck

The conversation being discussed on this thread.

Is one of or if not the most personal and defining intimate conversation between husband and wife or wife and husband.

While working in sales over the years, I have heard it all.

Men bragging and just talking about all sorts of adventures with their wives, girlfriends and extra marriage experiences.

In all of those years, I have wondered why these men talk so freely about these things?

Are they bragging? Are they missing the boat? Are they wanting to justify themselves?

To me it is a form of intimacy cheating on their spouse.

Relations with a spouse are personal, honest, pure, loving, mutual, caring, respectful, spiritual (in a non salvational sense), memorable and the last mile of intimacy.

Way to many people invite their extended family, friends and others into this intimacy.

This place of intimacy is one that no other individual should ever have an open door.

Long before 2 people cheat in the act.

They cheat in the doorway of adultery.

These men and woman share these intimate thouughts, desires etc.

With others because they do not have a pure intimacy with their spouse.

I would not share with anyone on this forum what I am against or for in my marriage.

What I do know is an abomination in the eyes of God in my marriage.

Is acting outside my marriage and intimacy bond.

My wife has also heard it all from her friends over the years.

This bond needs to built on the trust of ultimate intimacy....

Thank you for this post! Really, this thread needs to stop. It is a very intimate subject that is really nobody's business except the married man and his wife. They alone decide what happens in their bed. If the wife agrees to AS and the husband OS or vice versa, that is their perogative. It is none of my business if they do or don't. God doesn't care either. As long as that married couple is in agreement it is none of our business.

It sounds to me as if someone is trying to prove a point to shove in their spouse's face to get what they want and this is not the way to do it. If your spouse says, "No," respect their wishes. Intimate actions must be in agreement.

[Michael Phelps]

Originally Posted by George

Thank you for this post! Really, this thread needs to stop. It is a very intimate subject that is really nobody's business except the married man and his wife. They alone decide what happens in their bed. If the wife agrees to AS and the husband OS or vice versa, that is their perogative. It is none of my business if they do or don't. God doesn't care either. As long as that married couple is in agreement it is none of our business.

It sounds to me as if someone is trying to prove a point to shove in their spouse's face to get what they want and this is not the way to do it. If your spouse says, "No," respect their wishes. Intimate actions must be in agreement.

I'm quite sure the thread will stop when the conversation is exhausted.

Believe it or not, this is a pertinent subject - there are couples who live in mortal fear of violating some sacred creed, and its senseless.

[George]

Originally Posted by Michael Phelps

I'm quite sure the thread will stop when the conversation is exhausted.

Believe it or not, this is a pertinent subject - there are couples who live in mortal fear of violating some sacred creed, and its senseless.

After 30 + years of marriage, you don't have to convince me that sex is a pertinent subject for couples. The bottom line is the decision is between the married couple and they don't need the opinions of people on this forum who are saying, "No, it's a sin," or "It's ok." That is a decision they have to make. If they are living in fear of having adventurous sex with their partner, they need to get therapy.

You and I may think it is senseless for a couple to live in fear of violating a sacred creed if they have OS or AS, but there are others on this forum who are saying it is wrong. This leaves the scared couple confused and we are not really helping them. They need to seek a licensed therapist. It is not any of the preacher's business to direct anyone's sex life provided it is within the bonds of marriage. Bottom line - the marriage bed is a free place providing the couple are in agreement. It is nobody elses business.