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Old 06-26-2008, 09:50 AM
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Mark, are you saying this is MANDATORY for all members of the church?

or is this some ministry/service being offered?

this is a very important question.

I don't know for certain but I do remember hearing
that it was mandatory for all membership. they had to
sign some kind of agreement ???? Don't hold me to this
but that was my understanding.
I recall a few years ago that the members were given 6 weeks
to sign up and get a specific filter for their internet
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You are scaring me, Mark.
ME TOO! (Sherri, Sorry about not making it to Love and Truth last night...my brother in law came in to spend the night with us....)

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Old 06-26-2008, 09:51 AM
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I don't know for certain but I do remember hearing
that it was mandatory for all membership. they had to
sign some kind of agreement ???? Don't hold me to this
but that was my understanding.
I recall a few years ago that the members were given 6 weeks
to sign up and get a specific filter for their internet
I think I would have just started another church across the street and told all the members that if they thought dude was too controling to come to the new church.
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Old 06-26-2008, 09:52 AM
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It's a good thing that God put an electric fence around the Tree of Knowledge in the Garden of Eden... oh wait -- He didn't
And to think, He wants us to go out into the world. And tell people about Him and His saving grace.
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If there's nothing to hide then why would anyone have
a problem with it ??
For the same reason I wouldn't be on staff at a church that required me to keep surveillance cameras in my home, in order to supervise my activities.

Like I said, VOLUNTARY accountability is a very good thing...but mandatory? The pastor is being over-zealous at best. There may be some circumstances that are prompting him to take this action, but in the end, it won't bring about the results he's after anyway.

Mandatory morality is just tossing away the NT in exchange for the Old. If a person doesn't pursue purity and morality from a point of his own love for and consecration to God, then it's a moot point. Remember the scripture about a man looking on a woman...with lust...has already committed adultery? You can make all kinds of rules, but if the heart isn't right, the rules accomplish nothing.

To be blunt, a man who can't look at porn because his pastor is looking over his shoulder can still THINK about porn if the heart problem isn't fixed.
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You are scaring me, Mark.


well, where I would differ is, I think it should be
voluntary.

what if a person was having problems with some kind
of moral issues and maybe it created marital problems-
don't you think something like this could be beneficial ?
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I was going to say the same thing! But I didn't want people to think I was like that Baron guy!
I nick named him Bubba.......
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For the same reason I wouldn't be on staff at a church that required me to keep surveillance cameras in my home, in order to supervise my activities.

Like I said, VOLUNTARY accountability is a very good thing...but mandatory? The pastor is being over-zealous at best. There may be some circumstances that are prompting him to take this action, but in the end, it won't bring about the results he's after anyway.

Mandatory morality is just tossing away the NT in exchange for the Old. If a person doesn't pursue purity and morality from a point of his own love for and consecration to God, then it's a moot point. Remember the scripture about a man looking on a woman...with lust...has already committed adultery? You can make all kinds of rules, but if the heart isn't right, the rules accomplish nothing.

To be blunt, a man who can't look at porn because his pastor is looking over his shoulder can still THINK about porn if the heart problem isn't fixed.

what she said.... Mrs Bratified is often the voice of reason.
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well, where I would differ is, I think it should be
voluntary.

what if a person was having problems with some kind
of moral issues and maybe it created marital problems-
don't you think something like this could be beneficial ?
Forced accountiblilty is not very effective....look at our judicial and penal systems. Recitivism is rampant. If someone is offered help from a loving standpoint and not a judgemental standpoint, ones chances of recovery from whatever problem is greater. "Perfect love casts out all fear"
I've had more success with helping people by revealing my hurts, pain, addictions, screw ups, etc., than by pointing out their sins.
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I nick named him Bubba.......
I got that...
That is actually what my daughter has always called her brother (He is going into high school, she into middle school)
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