Homosexuality ... How do the "Advocates" deal...

[Socialite]

Originally Posted by coadie

It seems the "advocates" are striving to say they see no violence so there is none. Not only is there plenty, It is difficult to deal with.

If these relationships are of a sex addiction and selfish nature, the loss of a power struggle and granting of authority just can't happen.

No, it SEEMS all we've seen are anecdotes. Your drive-by copy/pastes haven't settled anything. And if there is a higher proclivity to violence, the factors associated are certainly more complex than to simply attribute it to some ethereal concept as headship.

Many of us know and are friends with homosexuals where we haven't seen this to be the case. So even if the numbers are higher, they aren't certainly high enough to get beside yourself with a new theory.

And who are the "advocates" that you are talking about? TJJJ already clarified he is referring to those on this board who excuse homosexuality as sin. None of them have chimed in thus far.

[coadie]

My irony meter is broken.



Definition:

Sadism, or the "s" in s and m bondage, is deriving pleasure by inflicting pain on or humiliating another.

The word sadism is believed to be named after the 19th century Frenchman, Marquis de Sade, whose books "Justine" and "120 days of Sodom" caused public outcry for their depiction of torture and pain.

BDSM. Sado Masochism is a derivitive of the word sadism coupled with masochism. Gays wearing collars in San Francisco.

This brings us back to the 20 some paraphilias that are sexual mental disorders of which Homosexuality and like bestiality and bondage are named plus other fetishes.

Back to the topic, in sexual fantasies they do depict a person of superior and one of inferior power.

Sadism is by no means an activity exclusive to gay men; however some gay men enjoy sadistic role plays to varying degrees, from simple nipple play to being blindfolds.

http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaydictionary/g/sadism.htm

The more we learn about this group, the tendency is to stay clear.

[Socialite]

Originally Posted by coadie

My irony meter is broken.



Definition:
http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaydictionary/g/sadism.htm

The more we learn about this group, the tendency is to stay clear.

What group are you staying clear of, ignorant?

[Azzan]

Originally Posted by coadie

It seems the "advocates" are striving to say they see no violence so there is none. Not only is there plenty, It is difficult to deal with.

If these relationships are of a sex addiction and selfish nature, the loss of a power struggle and granting of authority just can't happen.

That is not what I said. This is what I said:

Originally Posted by Azzan

Based on my personal observation, on a general scale, homosexual couples manage mutually. I've seen relationships that have tension in them and I've seen relationships that didn't have tension. The ones who did have tension were a poor match, in my opinion, for any number of reasons: personality clashes, different value systems, etc.

I've not personally witnessed any abuse but I'm not denying it's not there.

Why do you always twist people's words?

[Socialite]

Originally Posted by Azzan

That is not what I said. This is what I said:



Why do you always twist people's words?

He can't help it.

[coadie]

Originally Posted by Azzan

That is not what I said. This is what I said:



Why do you always twist people's words?

I will be glad to clarify. I was actually quotting TJJ if you will check. Earlier this link was posted which also denies any abuse of a greater extent than heterosexual couples.

Domestic violence in the GLBT community is a serious issue. The rates of domestic violence in same-gender relationships is roughly the same as domestic violence against heterosexual women (25%).

http://www.lambda.org/DV_background.htm

A Queer individual who is being battered must overcome homophobia and denial of the issue of battering.

[Azzan]

My apologies, Coadie. I misunderstoood you.

[coadie]

Originally Posted by Azzan

My apologies, Coadie. I misunderstoood you.

I assumed you were correct and found it in post #50

I actually get uncomfortible cutting and pasting from gay advocate sites because they use such graphic language and link to horrific pictures.

[Socialite]

Originally Posted by coadie

I assumed you were correct and found it in post #50

I actually get uncomfortible cutting and pasting from gay advocate sites because they use such graphic language and link to horrific pictures.

[coadie]

Originally Posted by Socialite

Chirping from the immoral minority left wing extremists.