I would also point out... it's not 'the music style' that is the major issue in all this.
It's the whole shebang... the whole 'gestalt', the whole zeitgeist, weltanschlung or whatever it is those Germans called it... the 'big picture', everything taken together as a whole...
The 'worship music' of today, by and large (not everywhere or all the time, but by and large from what I have experienced and seen) is missing HEART. It's not GENUINE, it's not HUMBLE, and quite frankly it's WORLDLY.
Least that's how it comes across to me.
Check this out, nothing to see just listen -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU98khZAz2g
THAT'S what we are missing...