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Old 07-26-2007, 01:13 PM
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The portion of your quote that I bolded is a great point, and one that leads to many a spiritual shipwreck. It's important to follow godly principles.

Some of the greatest regrets in my life are present because I chose to submit to a man, a job, or a system whose values were less than ideal.

Be careful whose authority you submit to.
BTW, I have quit jobs because a boss left and they placed a woman in his place who was domineering. I removed my twins from little league baseball because they had a coach that cussed every other word.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:13 PM
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Considering sports, i think it is a mixed bag no matter how you cut it.

in my youth group a few years ago, I had two kids the same age who played high school sports. both lettered.

I believe that organized sports hurt their walk with God very much.

the other I believe it gave them many many positives including the dicipline to live for God even now that they have left home and are in college (playing football at a D2 school). this kid came from a broken home in the hood. sports gave him male roll models and drive to succeed.

so clearly sports can be dangerous but it can also save a kid.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:14 PM
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I thought it but ... chose not pursue it....

I wonder how many kids pull double duty ? School and Kingdom "work".

What do you mean Daniel?

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Old 07-26-2007, 01:15 PM
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BTW, I have quit jobs because a boss left and they placed a woman in his place who was domineering.
Huh? I wont pursue ...

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I removed my twins from little league baseball because they had a coach that cussed every other word.
[/QUOTE] Great decision.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:15 PM
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Amos.. It seems to me thatyour thoughts have more to do with Church Attendance than living for God.. it seems..
Church attendance is only one thing I mentioned.

I do believe, though, that church attendance and participation is important for a healthy relationship with God.

Don't you?

Why would you willingly place yourself in a situation where you would be separated for long periods of time from the fellowship of the Body of Christ, and one's local church?

What is possible in unavoidable situations and what one should choose to do are two different things.

If you must, for some unavoidable reason, be away from fellowship, God is able to keep you; but why would you advise a young person to willingly embrace a lifestyle that would keep them away from churcy for long periods of time?

Please don't try and pigeonhole me as one of those people, whoever they are, that thinks all there is to a relationship with God is going to church. I know better than that.

Are you going to urge your own children to join the military, Rev?

Or do you just sort of want to disagree with me because I touched your sacred cow of athletics?
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:16 PM
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Amos.. What age are your kids.. if you don't mind..

My boys are 14 and 10
Your children are slightly older than mine.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:18 PM
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Amos, yours are the most balanced arguments i have heard against participation in organzied sports.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:20 PM
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Amos, yours are the most balanced arguments i have heard against participation in organzied sports.
Thank you Brother Ferd.

I certainly don't see it as an absolute that should be preached as if it were doctrine; these are just my own reasons and the logic (hopefully) behind the choices we have made.
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:22 PM
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Church attendance is only one thing I mentioned.

I do believe, though, that church attendance and participation is important for a healthy relationship with God.

Don't you?

Why would you willingly place yourself in a situation where you would be separated for long periods of time from the fellowship of the Body of Christ, and one's local church?

What is possible in unavoidable situations and what one should choose to do are two different things.

If you must, for some unavoidable reason, be away from fellowship, God is able to keep you; but why would you advise a young person to willingly embrace a lifestyle that would keep them away from churcy for long periods of time?

Please don't try and pigeonhole me as one of those people, whoever they are, that thinks all there is to a relationship with God is going to church. I know better than that.

Are you going to urge your own children to join the military, Rev?

Or do you just sort of want to disagree with me because I touched your sacred cow of athletics?

I have no sacred cow and really don't keep up with sports.. I do like to fish.. I and my wife have really enjoyed taking our kids to their games and watching them play.. (something my father never did with us) ..

and I would hope that in any situation that would take me away from fellowship my relationship with God would be stronger than the situation..

I know of many sick folk who couldn't go to church due to circumstances beyond their control and to many elderly folks who couldn't make a service but on TV by a false doctrine preacher but it was the only church they had...
and they maintained their relationship with God..

I have encouraged my sons to join the military... and if they choose so down the road I would be proud of them.. they are living for God at public school right now and seem to be suceeding.. I want them to know God for who he is and not just because someone tells them...


Amos.. I DO APPRECIATE Your Excellent Spirit in Talking with you here.. very commendable!!
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:22 PM
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What do you mean Daniel?

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I can only speak from the perspective of a PK ... and vicarious observation being "in" church my whole life

sometimes well-intentioned Christian parents have equated the work of God's Kingdom with attending every service and church activity ... while dragging the kids w/ them around all week ....

Many of them don't even have time to study or do homework ... or just interact w/ "heathens" ...

a practice that is defended as putting the Kingdom of God first and separation from the world

not realizing education and important social skills are being ignored.

While giving the child a sense that working for God is laborious and mechanical.

Of course ... there must be a balance ... and the hardest thing about parenting is finding that balance.
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