Ministries for women porn addicts

[Aquila]

Love play and intimate behaviors are very personal and are very different for each couple. I'd say that what works for one couple may not work for another. Some couples might be able to give each other this much freedom without insecurity, while another couple couldn't. It's like "games" and "role playing"... you know... the whole, "I'll be the King and you can be the concubine..." kind of thing. Some couples would revel, enjoy themselves, and laugh about their time together. Others would feel odd. Some couples wear intimate items, use various lotions, or even employ intimate items in their love making.

We need to understand that this subject calls for some privacy, respect, and flexibility. I'd handle it on a couple by couple basis.

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Aquila

Love play and intimate behaviors are very personal and are very different for each couple. I'd say that what works for one couple may not work for another. Some couples might be able to give each other this much freedom without insecurity, while another couple couldn't. It's like "games" and "role playing"... you know... the whole, "I'll be the King and you can be the concubine..." kind of thing. Some couples would revel, enjoy themselves, and laugh about their time together. Others would feel odd. Some couples wear intimate items, use various lotions, or even employ intimate items in their love making.

We need to understand that this subject calls for some privacy, respect, and flexibility. I'd handle it on a couple by couple basis.

Acting out sin ain't never right.

[RandyWayne]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

Acting out sin ain't never right.

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

[kristian's_mom]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

lol

That's classic. lol

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

So the question on the table might be... was their "game" a "sin"? It's make believe and nobody is actually "lusting" after another. But others might say otherwise.

If it is a "sin"...when children play "cops and robbers" a "sin". Robbery and theft was a sin last time I looked it up. What about video games and other entertainment games that include the taking of life? Is that a "sin". Is it a "sin" to play "Grand Theft Auto" on PlayStation? Why do we enjoy thriller novels and movies that often involve theft, murder, etc.? Do we not vicariously live through the characters?

Is make believe a "sin" in all contexts or is it simply using one's imagination?

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

You mean we cannot use our sailor and "lady of the evening" costumes?

True story: The police responded to an urgent 911 call placed by a pastors wife to their home. Once they got there they found her tied up on the bed dressed in a 1920's style outfit and long black hair wig. Her husband was knocked out, and in the closet, dressed in a Superman costume. He had gone in there with the intent of popping out and "saving" Louis Lane but while in there something dropped from the top shelf and knocked him out. His wife was tied up and had to use her foot to reach the phone to call the cops.

I didn't think that PO wanted that told

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

Acting out sin ain't never right.

What would be the "sin"?

[Aquila]

I'd like to know if anyone reading this thread has NEVER done it. I'll wager nearly everyone reading this thread has done it. And odds are... you'll do it again. It's a universal human behavior. Simple rule. Keep your focus on your mate. Think of new places you'd like to go, a secluded beach, being alone in a fine art museum featuring the works of the world's greatest French Impressionists, imagine being in a vinyard alone under the moon light. Imagine being in another time and perhaps in another place. This doesn't need to be "dirty" if one is thinking about one's spouse.