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Old 05-20-2008, 12:17 PM
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Re: Divorce - Adultery Thread

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Is it adultery if a married (man or women) uses porn?
Mrs.McD,

I have counseled many women and men where porn was involved. The one without the adiction felt that adultery was committed. They felt betrayed and trust lost.

I counsel very similarly with the actual adultery and perceived such as you are describing with use of porn.

Since the Bible tells us that if a man looks at a woman to lust after her in his heart - he commits adultery...BIBLICALLY you would have to say ADULTERY has been commited.

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Old 05-20-2008, 08:48 PM
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Is it adultery if a married (man or women) uses porn?

Yes,Matt.5
[27] Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
[28] But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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Old 05-20-2008, 09:13 PM
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Yes,Matt.5
[27] Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
[28] But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

I already said that but I am glad that you read your Bible also

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Re: Divorce - Adultery Thread

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Yes,Matt.5
[27] Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
[28] But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Joelel if looking at porn is automatically adultery, and adultery is biblical grounds for divorce. Then every man who looks at porn, his wife has grounds for divorce without him actually taking any action?
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Old 05-20-2008, 09:50 PM
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Joelel if looking at porn is automatically adultery, and adultery is biblical grounds for divoce. Then every man who looks at porn, his wife has grounds for divorce without him actually taking any action?
Who knew it would be that easy to get rid of her?
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Joelel if looking at porn is automatically adultery, and adultery is biblical grounds for divorce. Then every man who looks at porn, his wife has grounds for divorce without him actually taking any action?
I've read a study once that stated something like fornication is the physical sin while adultery is the emotional/heart sin. Jesus said no divorce except for fornication, which is the actual physical act itself.

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Joelel if looking at porn is automatically adultery, and adultery is biblical grounds for divorce. Then every man who looks at porn, his wife has grounds for divorce without him actually taking any action?
That's right it is grounds for divorce.If we are joined to a harlot we are one. That makes both a harlot and if a person is married to a harlot that makes Jesus a harlot because we are also joined to Jesus. If a person is married to a harlot, you must divorce him or her unless the person repents and stays repented.

1 Cor.6:15: Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid. 16: What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
17: But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
18: Flee fornication. (Adultery) Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that commiteth fornication (adultery) sinneth against his own body.
19: What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you,
which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20: For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
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Joelel if looking at porn is automatically adultery, and adultery is biblical grounds for divorce. Then every man who looks at porn, his wife has grounds for divorce without him actually taking any action?
That's right it is grounds for divorce.If we are joined to a harlot we are one. That makes both a harlot and if a person is married to a harlot that makes Jesus a harlot because we are also joined to Jesus. If a person is married to a harlot, you must divorce him or her unless the person repents and stays repented.

1 Cor.6:15: Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid. 16: What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
17: But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
18: Flee fornication. (Adultery) Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that commiteth fornication (adultery) sinneth against his own body.
19: What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you,
which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20: For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
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Old 05-22-2008, 11:52 PM
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I already said that but I am glad that you read your Bible also

Blessings, Rhoni
Right,if a person looks at porn they are looking at it with lust after that person in the porn,the lust of adultery is the same as adultery because it's in your heart.
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Re: Divorce - Adultery Thread

put up your dukes and fight like a woe man, lol,dt
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