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Old 08-17-2011, 06:18 AM
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Re: What's so wrong with polygamy?

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Here's a question that I think causes me to pause and wonder. My question is based on the following verse...
2 Samuel 12:7-8
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7Nathan said to David, "You are the man! Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you out of the hand of Saul. 8And I gave you your master’s house and your master’s wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more.
In this verse David is rebuked for his adultery with Bathsheba. However in it we see that God states that He, Himself, gave David many things... including his master's wives, and if that were too little, God would have given David more of the same.

If polygamy is as terribly vile, immoral, and perverted as our Western society believes... why would God say something like this?

It's a fair question. I have my theory. What do some of you think?
Did David already have a wife when he coveted Bathsheba?
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Old 08-17-2011, 06:38 AM
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Re: What's so wrong with polygamy?

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Did David already have a wife when he coveted Bathsheba?
Yes, David was already married. However, so was Bathsheba. And her status is what made David's actions adulterous, not David's.

I'll explain...

The OT is culture is structured on an entirely different paradigm than the NT. I have several good books on ancient biblical marriage practices, culture, and behavior. Adultery was largely dependent upon the status of the woman, not the man. A man could take several women to wife and not commit adultery. A man could even have concubines (mistresses) and not be considered adulterous. Why? They were not married to other men. However, if a woman was married to another man both she and her partner would be guilty of adultery. The perspective is largely grounded in the notion that a wife or concubine is legally considered a man's property in the ancient world. Adultery was unlawfully using or exploiting another man's property. It also endangered his entire estate. Because if a woman gave birth to a male child that wasn't her husband's, part of his inheretance would be shelled out to a line of decentents that wasn't his own. It was about protecting what belonged to a husband, including his estate.

Now, in the NT both the husband and the wife have authority over the other's body. Now things are a bit equalized under the NT Covenant. This ensures that NT marriage mirrors the relationship between Christ and His bride. So it's far more spiritual and moral instead of social, as it was in the OT.

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Old 08-18-2011, 09:01 AM
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Re: What's so wrong with polygamy?

I think some of the poster's are confusing polygamy with a swinger lifestyle. Polygamist wives do not share the same bed and sometimes not even the same house.
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Old 08-18-2011, 09:07 AM
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I think some of the poster's are confusing polygamy with a swinger lifestyle. Polygamist wives do not share the same bed and sometimes not even the same house.
Very true.
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Old 08-18-2011, 01:40 PM
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Re: What's so wrong with polygamy?

Now I have to build multiple HOUSES? Now THAT'S just WRONG!
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Old 08-18-2011, 02:20 PM
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Now I have to build multiple HOUSES? Now THAT'S just WRONG!
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Old 08-18-2011, 03:28 PM
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Re: What's so wrong with polygamy?

http://www.giveshare.org/family/polygamy.html
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What does the Bible say about it?
There's nothing wrong! So when can I meet you and your sisters?
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There's nothing wrong! So when can I meet you and your sisters?
Doesn't the Bible say something about a man cannot marry sisters?
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Doesn't the Bible say something about a man cannot marry sisters?
Where?
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