New member, new to church, questions

[Tomas]

Hi.

I've been attending an apostolic church in my area. Though not baptised in this church, I've been baptised in another denominational church.

The church members at the apostolic church I attend are very friendly and welcome me every Sunday I can attend. They are more friendly than the minister. I have had a beard most of my life and it might be he doesn't care for it. Tried asking questions in an email about my concerns but didn't get very far. Maybe I should try a different church.

Met someone since attending and in talking with her she has reservations about seeing me further until I become batized. Says her family with shun her. Is this common practice?

This brings up a question I have about getting married in an apostolic church. Do both the man and woman have to be church members?

Is baptism the only way to become a church member?

I've seen comments about being clean shaven, but it's been my life style for as one as I can remember having a beard. Are there apostolic churches that accept beards?

Thanks in advance for any comments.

Tomas