This is what I would do...
To me, the greatest thing that the ministry and the church has to offer a sinner is a Second Chance and Jesus gave us an example of HOW to offer a SECOND CHANCE in his discussion with Nicodemus in
John 3.
Joh 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born
again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
Joh 3:4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
The New Birth is the most wonderful subject that a sinner could ever hear! The key word in
John 3:3 is AGAIN. We were all born once into sin, but the New Birth gives us all a SECOND CHANCE! Our first birth brought us into chaos, trouble and heart aches. The word AGAIN, says soooo much! You don't have to continue in sin. You don't have to live like your parents before you. You can change your life.
Joh 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee,
Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
The word EXCEPT translates to UNLESS (see Strongs #G3362), UNLESS a man be born of water and of the Spirit, lets us know there is no other way to go to heaven. If you don't do this (be born of water and of the Spirit) , then that (cannot enter into the kingdom of God) will not happen.
The New Birth is not just a reformation of a life where the sinner gets to CHANGE his lives, but there's the added blessings of righteousness, peace, happiness and heaven.
Sooooooo simple, but I always did try to operate the KISS principle. Keep It Simple Stupid.