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Old 09-18-2008, 11:26 AM
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You just had to bring up my dear Louisiana, didnt you?
I'm sorry. (sorta) There's a LOT to love about La, including Southern people with their Southern ways. And all that wonderful food!!!!

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Well you are right. I made up my mind a long time ago to simply confront it immediately. I cant tell you the times I have looked friends and family in the eye and told them they were going to hell for the hatred in their hearts. I have told very close family members if they didnt stop using that word, I simply would not allow my children to be around them. period. No room for discussion no room for justifcation.

Ive been told "I dont mean anything by it" and I have called them liars and told them to repent, and not backed down until I got an appology.

after a few tense years, they seem to be some better about it. EVERYBODY needs to just confront it directly and never let anyone have a pass. period.
It's awesome that you are teaching your boys how to take a stand. We've had to do the same with a few members of our family. Usually it just takes once, but some people are either overly defensive, or they're just rebelliously persistent. *sigh*

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Now as for CAF, I personally know that at least 1 of the Admin has done exactly that.
I was just noting in my first post (I think), that the title of this thread didn't really seem like an attack on all the forums to me, but rather calling the attention of ALL Apostolic (forums) to the problem.
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:27 AM
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i also dislike pathological lairs and drama queens. I can solemnly affirm all my statements are true, oh thumper. You also confirmed my allegations by stating the percentage of the opposing party. Sir, your favoritism hinders your insight. Come towards the light, we have cookies in the light.
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:32 AM
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I also dislike pathological lairs and drama queens. I can solemnly affirm all my statements are true, oh Thumper. You also confirmed my allegations by stating the percentage of the opposing party. Sir, your favoritism hinders your insight. Come towards the light, we have cookies in the light.

Love it. I may have to "borrow" that line one day.
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:34 AM
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This stuff used to surprise me, but not any more, unfortunately.

Sometimes I wonder if people like this can really enter heaven.
If they do, it'll be just another testament to the great mercies of our God.

Ironically , in many of the places where you see this, they are hardcore on "holiness". Obviously they define "holiness" as dress length, hair length, no TV, etc. ....But racial bias and crude racial humor among the "saints" is ok with them.
(sigh)

Since we've moved back to the Midwest, I have rarely encountered racism, at least not to this degree. Some minor prejudices...maybe. But I will agree that in the South there is a different, and even more dangerous dynamic, and for that reason many pastors--and parents--have the fairly legitimate intent to protect their saints and children from existing prejudice by refusing to support intermarriage.

Unfortunately, that tact just serves to put the problem into maintenance mode, it puts saints who are in interracial relationships into unnecessary discomfort, and it may exacerbate the problem by offering what seems to be a supportive point of view from leaders to racists. (Whether it is intended that way or not.)
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:41 AM
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Indeed. CAF has a reputation for kicking people out who don't fit the narrow mold of what they consider a 'conservative Apostolic' to be.
Please list below the names of all who were kicked out for not fitting the narrow mold of what a 'conservative Apostolic' should be.


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We'll start with the first 5 and go from there. LOL
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:42 AM
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For the record:

I have absolutely no problem with inter-racial marriange.

I do have a problem with liars though.
There THUMPER goes again: Keeping the thread on-subject and on track.

Why can't folks that want to leave a forum just have the usual "goodbye, world" thread and leave? Why seek a sympathetic audience elsewhere?


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Old 09-18-2008, 11:46 AM
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You were physically threatened!! Please post the messages that you were physically threatened in.

This is getting better by the minute.

Thats what I love about online forums. Non stop drama it's great

That great light you are so proud of is, unfortunately, most likely the result of being hit in the head with a shovel. Real truth doesn't require illusions to sustain itself
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:48 AM
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There THUMPER goes again: Keeping the thread on-subject and on track.

Why can't folks that want to leave a forum just have the usual "goodbye, world" thread and leave? Why seek a sympathetic audience elsewhere?


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Strangely enough elder I was just discussing that very same subject with a saint in my church last night but only with reference to backsliders instead of forum leavers.
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:50 AM
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I'm so thankful I was raised free of racial discrimination. Never heard it or saw it exampled in our home outside of a few comments once in a while about the French being ignorant. LOL! (I grew up, as a child, in a city that was about 50% French/English).

I just can't imagine someone being against racial discrimination but will discriminate against their own brothers and sisters in the Church for other reasons. Seems like that would be just a wee bit hypocritical.
* clears throat...

Just thought that this was worth repeating!!!
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LOL! did your Irony meter just go off the chart?
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