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Old 09-22-2017, 09:38 AM
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Same reason maybe they didn't call you on mocking me being dragged to a lit stove and being burned by my stepmother when I was a child.
We discussed this. You mocked VETERANS with PTSD, men who proudly served and suffer a living nightmare over it. So, I decided to mock your pain. Sad thing is, you're whining far more about being mocked by little ol' me than any vet who read your ignorant drivel. A glass jaw paper tiger. And here's the hilarious thing, you're still whining over it. LOL! You're such a wuss.
A.) PTSD is real. Get over it.
B.) You mocked the pain of others and you revealed your pain, you got mocked in return. Get over it.
Suck it up buttercup, put on your big girl britches and put it behind you. It only makes you look more and more like a pansy. Go lift weights. Maybe exercise. Or, I know you have worked on bikes, go do that. Get your mind off of it and... let it go, never to return. Else, you're allowing what I said to occupy precious space in your head. And, you allow it to bother you and keep coming to the surface. Which means... the anger owns you. You're better than that, and you know it.

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That's legalism my boy, a shirt, a tie, and a haircut pales in comparison. You want to debate about skirts, beards, how the ultracons do what they do, and call it legalism.
Nope. Why do I always have to correct the hard of reading? I explained that believing that these things have bearing on our salvation is legalism. I find it funny that your Jesus died to provide a salvation so weak, so shallow, so relatively fragile that you believe a woman can be saved by an Amazing Grace, only to be damned by a pair of Jordache jeans. Or that a man, can be atoned for by the very blood of God, and damned by a beard. It's pathetic. LOL

Let me break it down. The only "greasy grace" is one that can slip right through one's fingers over little insignificant things like these.

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While you within the darkness of your thoughts you do to people in your mind what serial killers carry out in reality.
Exaggerate much? LOL

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You always play victim which to those who don't know of your shenanigans would quickly swallow. The Admins did their job in the Psychology thread because you let it all hang out. You held nothing back. When you realized what you had done you took a few days off, then came back as pious, barefoot, Chris robed in bloody stigmata.
I'm not ashamed of my wounds.

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Chris, you know where you are at, and you like where you are at.
That is fluid my friend. Where I'm at? Where am I, oh great one? I have good days, I have bad days. My PTSD has flared up at times, and as a result I've been able to manage it. Then there are times I haven't. We fall down. We get up.

Like I've said before... What do you want from me? You don't know the prayers I've prayed in the past two days. You don't know the tears I've shed or even what they were about. You don't know what I've asked the LORD to give me guidance over. You don't know what my children are facing right now. You don't know who's in the hospital, who's dying, or what is happening in my life. Yet you set yourself up as my judge, my jury, and my executioner. Talk about arrogance.

Bro, you need to repent of your hatred and arrogance. No one appointed you as my spiritual authority. I don't mind chatting with you. I don't mind a good debate. I don't mind a discussion about how our views differ. But you're incapable of doing that. You can't just say, "I disagree, Chris. And here's why..." No, you just hurl insults, degrade, and malign anyone who disagrees with you. That speaks of deep insecurity on your part. I have net to read of you agreeing to disagree. No, you have to whine, call names, drag up the past, throw mud. Here's what you've done... you've taken your faith and you're handling like people handle politics. You can't disagree without insult. It's beyond your capabilities. You're so insecure, you fear it would make you look weak. It's really pathetic.

We're two grown men. I'm not your pastor. You're not mine. Why can't we discuss things without you going so personal? Besides, I've used hyperbole in quite a few things I've said to you, only you watch you run with it like some sottish school kid trying to get another in some kind of trouble. You're too predictable. In fact, I have seen several threads wherein I was tempted to just get you back onto your holier than thou bandwagon. But I felt it would derail an otherwise decent conversation, so I didn't.

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You say some shocking stuff, and you were notified in posts from other posters of what you have said. Women who wear skirts are "easy access" for rapists? Sick? You posted that, Mr piety, but you are on a forum, a public one, one where your posts are here and archived.
That's not what I said. Nor was that my intention. You know, twisting a man's words is essentially a lie. That means, it's a sin. We were discussing a safety concern that another poster had brought up about a church in an area with a rapist on the loose. First, I didn't bring up the topic. Second, I didn't say that it served "easy access for rapists". The "easy access" was in a conversation wherein I mentioned that skirts and dresses do not insure that a woman is modest because some of the most immodest women I've known deliberately wore skirts. At that, you had a meltdown instead of actually proving yourself to be capable of contemplating my point.

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You would think that would compel you to stay with in the honesty zone. But, no, not you, you are free to tell people they live in ghettos,
You're still butt-hurting over that comment? LOL

You twisted what I said in that conversation too. Other posters even tried to help explain my point, and it was still lost on you.

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how you wouldn't allow your family to live in a ghetto,
Twisting my words again. It is our duty as parents to ensure that our children are in a safe environment. That was the point. You're so stuck on words. It's like they trigger your own PTSD, making you incapable of getting beyond the words to see the point. LOL

"ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto,"

How does that make you feel? Is your blood pressure rising? Any racing thoughts? Do you feel anxiety? You might want to take it to Jesus, buddy.

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how stay at home wives are losers,
I never said stay at home wives or mom's were losers. My mom was a stay at home mom. Bruh... I think you harbor guilt for making your wife stay at home or something. Because you just can't shake it can you? Look, I've explained it to you a dozen or more times. I wasn't talking about YOUR wife, I was talking about women who sincerely feel they have dreams, or even a calling, to a career, ministry, service, or vocation. Then there are women who feel a shared duty to help provide. I don't think a Christian man would hold them down, hold them back, or make them give up on their dreams, calling, or sense of duty. That's all I was saying. But you're incapable of grasping that. Because deep down inside... you resent successful women. Especially those more successful than you. lol Dude, get over it. You're where God wants you. Grow where you're planted. Stop trying to run everyone else's lives for them.

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and Bernie Sanders was the hope of the world.
Bernie was the bomb! LOL

It's only an opinion different from your own. Can you deal with it? Or does it irritate you like a pebble in your sandal? Does it make you get all red in the face and frustrated that I think Trump is a crook and Bernie was a better man? Does it make you want to feverishly write a litany of insults and trash talk? LOL It must frustrate you like sandpaper in your britches.

I have a different opinion. And you can't change it. Nana, nana, na, na. LOL

We all have opinions. Get over it. Let it go.

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While I could careless about the later, you are the one who post things to get a rise out of other posters.
Ah, yes. I have. And I can admit it. But you can't. LOL

You and I both know that a number of us have done that from time to time. It's just a discussion board. Throw something out there, sometimes sensationalize it. Sometimes make it a bit radical. Just to get some discussion going. But those whose intellect is a mile wide and an inch deep miss the point. For example, when I was taking that radical position that we should protest in the churches if pastors politick from the pulpit. You lost it! LOL You got your panties in a bunch about how I advocate disruption and protest, and even "violence" in churches. Here's what you missed... "if pastors politick from the pulpit". The real question should have been... should pastors use their pulpits to politick from some political candidate? And seeing that they had lifted prohibitions on pastors endorsing specific candidates, we should also ask, should they have lifted that prohibition? Might pastors politicking from the pulpit bring protests? Would pastors politicking from the pulpit potentially divide the body based on earthly politics? All of those deeper more intellectual questions were lost on you bro. LOL You just wanted to nail me to the wall like I had actually protested in a church or something. You were so mad. LOL I really got your goat. But... it proved something to me. You can't discern the deeper questions. You just have to go off on something or some one. You can't pause and ask yourself, "Wait. What are they really saying here?" If something I say seems way too radical, it's by design. What got me about that thread was that people were freaked out and concerned over how protestors might take protests to the churches... than the fact that churches were just drafted as tax free political action committees for earthly politicians to use to manipulate the masses through the sacred authority of the pastoral office. Very few people got it. You weren't among them.

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You know that, but you are a shapeshifter, and you are getting older, hope you allow age to set you in the proper direction, instead of sending you spiraling off into oblivion.
Oh, dear goodness. Because the opinion of some stranger on a discussion forum keeps me up at night. LOL

Get over yourself.
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Old 09-22-2017, 09:49 AM
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Oh, another one of Aquila's lame attempt at "I'm really not who you think I am"

Chris this is one of your tools in your tool box? Like the flag of Dixie? Your statement concerning all those who had flown it should be hung for treason? When another poster asked you if blacks who fly the flag should be hung as well, you answer in the affirmative? When challenged on your comments you claim you were only kidding, using hyperbole, and how could we possibly believe you were actually hang someone? That my boy, is placing the blame all on those who oppose you.

Aquila your girlfriend, "lady love" should run from you like her head was on fire.

Seriously.
What I find laughable is that you believe I'd literally hang someone over a Dixie flag! I've covered this one with you too, oh great discerner. I was using hyperbole, exaggeration, to express my contempt for the Confederacy and the values they hold as articulated in their own constitution. But, that's lost on you too. Poor guy. No wonder your evangelism never really got off the ground and as a result you feel the need to troll the message boards of forums to give yourself some sense of meaning. LOL

You actually believe I'd literally hang someone! ROFLMBO!!!

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Old 09-22-2017, 09:52 AM
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Chris this is one of your tools in your tool box? Like the flag of Dixie? Your statement concerning all those who had flown it should be hung for treason? When another poster asked you if blacks who fly the flag should be hung as well, you answer in the affirmative?
LOL!

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Old 09-22-2017, 10:25 AM
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What I find laughable is that you believe I'd literally hang someone over a Dixie flag! I've covered this one with you too, oh great discerner. I was using hyperbole, exaggeration, to express my contempt for the Confederacy and the values they hold as articulated in their own constitution. But, that's lost on you too. Poor guy. No wonder your evangelism never really got off the ground and as a result you feel the need to troll the message boards of forums to give yourself some sense of meaning. LOL

You actually believe I'd literally hang someone! ROFLMBO!!!

Chris, you were caught in your stupidity.

You posted hang them for treason.

Do citizens execute other citizens for treason?

Whether or not you would hang someone is moot, you said that anyone flying the flag should be hung. If hyperbole? Which it wasn't because you gave an affirmative to another poster that you believed a death penalty should be handed out. Then you really mean that they should get a harsh penalty, either way you posted something stupid and won't own your own behavior. That is typical for you, I feel sorry for your girlfriend, she should really consider what she is getting herself into with you. You need to repent of your sorry situation, and ponder that you are leading someone other than yourself into destruction.
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Old 09-22-2017, 10:33 AM
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LOL!

"EVERYBODY RUN! HE'S GONNA HANG SOMEBODY!!!" ~ Benincasa
The above is typical Aquila/Chris attitude towards his tripping over one of his bumbled posts. He makes it out that it is the other guys fault. You see, Chris, is not guilty, he is really innocent. He lived his life that way, marching his wife into the house to put on some religious garb, because it would of made him look bad. Everything he posts comes from an emotion to be the hero. So, it is easy to get him to take off the gloves. He was pious in his postings? Correct? But people don't angry when you lie about them, they get angry when you show them the truth about themselves. Aquila is typical of what the advent of the internet created. Look well at posters when you post with them. Read, and keep in mind how they zig and zag around what they previously had posted. Aquila lives with a girl, calls it marriage, ate McDonald's happy meals naked together and posted the exploits for all to see and comment on. So, this is his tantrum for himself shooting himself in his foot.

Aquila, I feel sorry for your girlfriend, she will gain nothing by being with you. You aren't being honest with her.
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Old 09-22-2017, 11:05 AM
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Chris, you were caught in your stupidity.

You posted hang them for treason.

Do citizens execute other citizens for treason?

Whether or not you would hang someone is moot, you said that anyone flying the flag should be hung. If hyperbole? Which it wasn't because you gave an affirmative to another poster that you believed a death penalty should be handed out. Then you really mean that they should get a harsh penalty, either way you posted something stupid and won't own your own behavior. That is typical for you, I feel sorry for your girlfriend, she should really consider what she is getting herself into with you. You need to repent of your sorry situation, and ponder that you are leading someone other than yourself into destruction.
You like to make it up as you go, don't you. I'm the one who said, I'll tell you what I meant. And you can either take it or continue to lie your pretty little britches off and throw your temper tantrums. LOL

First, I want to say that, I own it.

I served in the United States military and gave an oath to protect and defend the Constitution of the United States of America. Those Confederate loving, Dixie Flag waving, fruit-loops are obviously waving a "Rebel Flag". That means, they have treason in their hearts. You are either loyal to your nation, or loyal to its enemies. Now, the Confederacy was an enemy. And if one is a loyal American, who loves the Constitution of the United States, who happens to be proud of their "Southern heritage", why on God's green earth would they choose a "Rebel Flag" to represent them? Either they are ignorant or hiding their traitorous spirit.

So, I do have a significant amount of disgust for the Confederacy and those who praise her. She was an enemy of our Union. It's a historical fact. I have a significant amount of disgust for traitors, racists, and ignorance. And sadly, they march around waving "Rebel Flags" and speak of the south "rising again".

Now, would I really hang a person for it? No. They're free to be idiots. It was hyperbole to express my contempt for the Confederacy and all it stands for.

I think you're panties are in a bunch because you love that Rebel Flag. You love it more than the ol' Stars and Stripes.

What's telling is... you wouldn't say a word if anyone spoke of hanging liberals. Your selective outrage on this only reveals your hypocrisy and lack of loyalty to our country.
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Old 09-22-2017, 11:38 AM
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The above is typical Aquila/Chris attitude towards his tripping over one of his bumbled posts. He makes it out that it is the other guys fault. You see, Chris, is not guilty, he is really innocent.
Again, you're not getting it.

Anyone who knows me could have read the now infamous "hanging" statement and rolled their eyes and said, "I can see you do have strong feelings about the Confederacy. Now Chris, I know you wouldn't really hang anyone." And I would have most likely said something along the lines of, "No, I wouldn't hang anyone. But it burns me up how Americans can be so loyal to a rebel confederacy that was an enemy of our nation. It just seems like treason to me." And, that might have been the end of it.

But here comes Evange Benincasa... he grabs what I posted and prints it out. He takes it in his clinched hand and begins running down the streets waving it in the air, and with tears of feigned alarm, he cries, "Chris wants to hang people! Chris wants to hang people!" And he continues to run down the street of every thread waving that pathetic little piece of paper with my statement on it trying to convince people I "Bumbled". No. He's just a liar, twisting the truth. And when I try to clarify for him, so he doesn't look like some whiner, he slams his fingers in his ears and says, "No, you bumbled! You bumbled!"

Awww... poor Benincasa. Hims so sure of himself about someone he barely knows. Too bad he doesn't have anything better to do. LOL

I think you're just bitter over something that came your way long before you met me. What that is, well, only you know.

In the end, no one can have a logical un-heated discussion with you. Because you're incapable. It's beyond your ability. LOL

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He lived his life that way, marching his wife into the house to put on some religious garb, because it would of made him look bad. Everything he posts comes from an emotion to be the hero. So, it is easy to get him to take off the gloves. He was pious in his postings? Correct? But people don't angry when you lie about them, they get angry when you show them the truth about themselves. Aquila is typical of what the advent of the internet created. Look well at posters when you post with them. Read, and keep in mind how they zig and zag around what they previously had posted. Aquila lives with a girl, calls it marriage, ate McDonald's happy meals naked together and posted the exploits for all to see and comment on. So, this is his tantrum for himself shooting himself in his foot.
Hey, I don't mind if you voice your opinion that what we're doing is wrong and admonish that we get hitched with a civil contract. Several other posters have admonished that same. So, what's the difference? You pepper your opinion with personal insults. You're incapable of just shooting straight and not getting personal. It's really a weakness on your part. And it leads me to believe that you could care less about me personally, you just want someone to beat up on verbally because outside of this forum, you have to play the balanced "evangelist" for people you really don't care anything about. This is your stress reliever. Your pressure valve. And as a result, I don't take you seriously at all. In fact, I find you silly.

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Aquila, I feel sorry for your girlfriend, she will gain nothing by being with you. You aren't being honest with her.
Dude, you don't know boundaries do you? LOL
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Old 09-22-2017, 11:51 AM
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You like to make it up as you go, don't you. I'm the one who said, I'll tell you what I meant. And you can either take it or continue to lie your pretty little britches off and throw your temper tantrums. LOL
You can tell anyone whatever you like. You can tell people you are a Christain, or a married man. But truth is discovered by evidence. temper tantrum? You are doing a good job at it. You never let me down. Java Man naked eating toast.

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First, I want to say that, I own it.
Here it comes...wait for it!!!


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I served in the United States military and gave an oath to protect and defend the Constitution of the United States of America.
Get off it, now you are conveniently a messenger of the government?

Dealing with you is like dealing is like watching a drunk trying to carefully run with your prized Ming Vase over someone's lawn. Aquila remember the post from the pastor Matt Trewhell? Evil empire no civil marriage, and now you are giving oaths to governments. You don't need to get soaked in prayer, you just need to soak your head.


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Those Confederate loving, Dixie Flag waving, fruit-loops are obviously waving a "Rebel Flag". That means, they have treason in their hearts.
Why Aquila, why don't you tell us how you really feel about the South?

Confederates? DIXIE loving, not Confederate loving. Dixie my boy. You have treason in your heart when it comes to God. That is more important that you tooting your horn on how you were in the military. I can set my watch to you, and know you will refute everything you posted concerning civil marriage when you play Yankee Doodle Aquila our flag waving hero.


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You are either loyal to your nation, or loyal to its enemies.
Where did Jesus teach that mr Biblical marriage? Where did Jesus teach His followers to pledge allegiance to the state and governement of men ...Pastor Matt Trewhell? Keep going Aquila your foot looks good in your big fat mouth.


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Now, the Confederacy was an enemy.
Was, you get that Bozo, was, and now you are supposed to be in Christ. REMEMBER sign the family Bible and your married? Your enemy is sin and death. You are a person who manipulates anything and everything to slink around whatever is in your way. Blow that on your tin horn.


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And if one is a loyal American, who loves the Constitution of the United States, who happens to be proud of their "Southern heritage", why on God's green earth would they choose a "Rebel Flag" to represent them? Either they are ignorant or hiding their traitorous spirit.
Because the flag to THEM no longer means or represents rebellion or slavery. It represents the South. You just remind them of the carpet baggers who came down to the antebellum south to plunder it. But like usual you are an emotional wreck, who can't tolerate being shown he isn't the pious snowflake of God.


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So, I do have a significant amount of disgust for the Confederacy and those who praise her. She was an enemy of our Union. It's a historical fact.
It is a historical fact that you had your rear end kicked by others. Who proved to you in the political forum that you have no clue concerning the South's involvement in the war.. Posters took you to school, but in typical Aquila/ Chris fashion he delusionally believes people live in continual amnesia. "It's a Historical fact!!!!" I'm right because I said it!!!" Aquila you are a raging little boy who refuses to submit to Christ and His leadership. Not a pastor, not a minister, not a home church where food and changing worship days from Sunday to Saturday is the main focus. But to follow Jesus Christ's leadership. You are the guy who prays and "feels" God doesn't listen? Drama words, all an emotional twister to draw the females and effeminate men to rub your shoulders and tell you its alright. You need Jesus, more than anything, but you would rather have Chris, and his problems to wear like a studded diadem, as you walk barefoot showing everyone your bleeding stigmata.


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I have a significant amount of disgust for traitors, racists, and ignorance. And sadly, they march around waving "Rebel Flags" and speak of the south "rising again".
Yawn, buddy boy, you have so much bigger fish to fry, don't you Chris? A significant amount of disgust? Not for your own sins, but for others who you know nothing about.

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Now, would I really hang a person for it? No. They're free to be idiots. It was hyperbole to express my contempt for the Confederacy and all it stands for.

I think you're panties are in a bunch because you love that Rebel Flag. You love it more than the ol' Stars and Stripes.

What's telling is... you wouldn't say a word if anyone spoke of hanging liberals. Your selective outrage on this only reveals your hypocrisy and lack of loyalty to our country.
Chris you already said that anyone flying the flag of Dixie should be hung for treason. This whole beating of your caved in chest means nothing. The hypocrite is you. But you try harder to make everyone believe the opposite than actually taking your own advise to fast, pray and read the word. You see, those things are what is needful, not you trying to prove that you are a legit Christian when you are a 100% Chowder head with a Bozo attitude any time someone is able to pull the obvious truth out of you.

Honestly hope your girlfriend counts the cost of what she is doing.

She isn't married to you and she can get out while the getting is good.

You are double minded you don't know whether to tie your shoes or change a tire. You know you have some deep crazy issues, do you really want to get someone else involved in that mayhem?

No, you probably look forward to getting someone involved in that mayhem.

A flag, and a family Bible is the least of your worries son.
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Old 09-22-2017, 11:54 AM
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Evang Benincasa,

As I've asked before...

What do you want from me?

Do you demand that I agree with you and do as you say?
Do you want me to renounce the faith so that you can get some kind of strange satisfaction of running another person off?
Do you want me to write you a pretty little letter of apology because you can't take the kind of criticism you dish out?

What do you want?

And don't hide behind all the Jesus stuff like you have been. Because there's no way for you to gauge, measure, or quantify that. In fact, I've prayed about this very issue over this past week and felt that perhaps it would be best to get a legal marriage. I don't want to displease God. But you're not aware of those prayers. As I search my heart and consider the future, praying for God's mercy and help, you just keep beating your drum of accusations, insults, and condemnation. So, I know it has nothing to do with Jesus or repentance.

Or do you now demand that I report all my prayers to you, so that you can know when I'm praying about a change of direction so that you can cease your attacks?

And in the end, you're just a stranger on the internet to me. Talk about your megalomania and spiritual control issues.

At the end of the day, I think you just have mental problems and you're fixated on me. LOL

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Again, you're not getting it.

Anyone who knows me could have read the now infamous "hanging" statement and rolled their eyes and said, "I can see you do have strong feelings about the Confederacy. Now Chris, I know you wouldn't really hang anyone." And I would have most likely said something along the lines of, "No, I wouldn't hang anyone. But it burns me up how Americans can be so loyal to a rebel confederacy that was an enemy of our nation. It just seems like treason to me." And, that might have been the end of it.
But they didn't roll the eyes. Chris, you are typical, you believe it is never your fault. You actually believe no one had a problem because you believe it. You live in a world of make believe. This is just another part of that experience.


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But here comes Evange Benincasa... he grabs what I posted and prints it out. He takes it in his clinched hand and begins running down the streets waving it in the air, and with tears of feigned alarm, he cries, "Chris wants to hang people! Chris wants to hang people!" And he continues to run down the street of every thread waving that pathetic little piece of paper with my statement on it trying to convince people I "Bumbled". No. He's just a liar, twisting the truth. And when I try to clarify for him, so he doesn't look like some whiner, he slams his fingers in his ears and says, "No, you bumbled! You bumbled!"
This coming from a person who just posted you have a significant amount of disgust for the Confederacy? How you believe anyone flying the Dixie flag is a racist? No one believes you. You said that anyone flying the flag should be hung for treason. Own it, set yourself free.

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Awww... poor Benincasa. Hims so sure of himself about someone he barely knows. Too bad he doesn't have anything better to do. LOL
That is stupid. Because you are here posting to me. Aquila, you just sit down and get your head together. I know you, I have been reading your material ever since you sent me a friend request. You PMed me before you left your wife. I watched as you unraveled to the place you are at now. Go look at the records of this forum. 2005 we started here, and I may of dealt with you on NFCF. But I been reading your stuff for awhile chief.

[QUOTE=Aquila;1502519]
I think you're just bitter over something that came your way long before you met me. What that is, well, only you know. {/quote]

Again, back to victim mode. You see the other guy is the bad guy. You are just whistling down the street, and bam you get sacked? No, you say stupid things and people respond to the stupid things you say. It is that easy. No victim needed. You are your worst enemy.



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In the end, no one can have a logical un-heated discussion with you. Because you're incapable. It's beyond your ability. LOL
It is logical, I logically deduced you make some outrageous comments. They get answered and you play fake Christian with your soft piety walking among the thorns. I don't post this way with everyone, just with flagrant liars who happen to own a keyboard.


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Hey, I don't mind if you voice your opinion that what we're doing is wrong and admonish that we get hitched with a civil contract. Several other posters have admonished that same. So, what's the difference? You pepper your opinion with personal insults. You're incapable of just shooting straight and not getting personal. It's really a weakness on your part. And it leads me to believe that you could care less about me personally, you just want someone to beat up on verbally because outside of this forum, you have to play the balanced "evangelist" for people you really don't care anything about. This is your stress reliever. Your pressure valve. And as a result, I don't take you seriously at all. In fact, I find you silly.
Get off it you just love to lie. You have made insinuations yourself, you are passive aggressive? You started this, with your post about eating naked to rekindle a relationship. Then we figured out you aren't married. Your girlfriend wanted to get married at family court. You then come back with talking about how anyone who doesn't agree with your intimacy with your girlfriend just had a hang up? You are that much of a imbecile? Are you? You posted the intimate situation, you got yourself here, YOU made yourself the lightning rod. Once again, if you don't understand that, then you are on your own. your girlfriend should really weigh out her options because you my boy are a train wreck ready to get worse.


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Dude, you don't know boundaries do you? LOL
Boundaries that YOU yourself moved. When you posted about eating cookies and milk in the nude.

Get real
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