If you leave a church, your out of Gods will ?

[areyourucky]

It seems over the years i noticed, that if you leave a church for any reason your told by some that your out of Gods will.
....... But when you find a new church your told again, that you in
Gods will your there. I heard Bro jeff arnold preach once againest pentecostal Popes once. He preached that it is gods will that even the lowerest member hear from God Direct. I hear many preach that you need to live for God on your own, but when you do, then you offend some when you do.
Any tips on this subject.