Lesbianism

[nahkoe]

Originally Posted by crakjak

This is a strange thread!!!!!

What he said.. lol

I keep trying to respond but I can't get words to screen.

I don't think it matters what makes someone gay, male or female. God's the only one who can change it anyhow.

All lesbians are definitely *not* masculine. That question I can answer.

[coadie]

Originally Posted by Encryptus

Nope I'm definitely the butch one.

I only go for the soft feminine ladies.

Some of the stiff pentecostals didn't get your humor.

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Falla39

I also know of a female basketball coach who was very mannish, etc. Know personally that several girls in her class turned out to be lesbians. Never married, lives with partners. One girl in this class married and then left her husband for another woman. Know of another girl who graduated from high school, married and had three children, left her husband and children, for a woman. Later left the other woman, etc..Reminds unmarried today. No, they weren't born that way. There are reasons these things happen. I am aware of many things that have happened through these 71 yrs. There is nothing new under the sun!

Falla39

I knew a mannish man once. It's funny because he didn't look "Mannish". lol

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Encryptus

After many years of therapy I have finally embraced the fact that I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

lol

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

I know a doctor who said he won't let his girls play basketball because they become gay. They seem to take on masculine mannerism in that sport.

That was one reason I didn't want to play sports in High School - the masculine mannerisms. I can be somewhat of a tomboy at times (not hard to do being raised by a rancher), but the sports thing takes it a bit far for me.

[Baron1710]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

I know a doctor who said he won't let his girls play basketball because they become gay. They seem to take on masculine mannerism in that sport.

This is just stupid.

Originally Posted by coadie

My daughter had 2 lesbian coaches in YMCA basketball. I knew some of her track coaches for many years and they were all males.

And this...Uh well what does one have to do with the other?

[TJJJ]

Originally Posted by Encryptus

After many years of therapy I have finally embraced the fact that I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


HEY, I GOT A QUESTION!


I like women, does that make me a lesbian?

[TJJJ]

AAAAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHH

I am feeling drawn.....



Like a magnet.......



to.......




My wife!!!!!




Was I born this way?


Was this my parents fault?


AAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH



So many questions....



I think it was public school!

[Ferd]

Originally Posted by Azzan

I have two personal theories based upon observation.

1) It seems to be more acceptable by society and perhaps by the individual(s) for a woman to be attracted to another woman than it is for a man to be attracted to another man.

2) I have visited various parts of the country besides my home turf and have found that there are far more visible establishments for gay men than there are for gay women. I am not sure why that is except to conclude that there are either less lesbians than there are gays or that lesbians feel less of a need to create exclusive lesbian establishments.

i think you are right on both counts. and there is a simple reason for it.

hetrosexual men find lesbianism erotic.

it is really that simple.

because hetro-men find lesbianism erotic, our culture which is centered on erotisim (think "sex sells") we find cultural accpetence for lesbianism.

We even find cultrual pressure on hetrosexaul females to act like lesbians in public. we see hetro-women in entertaiment kissing etc.

why would a lesbian feel pressure to self segregate when they are accpeted?

two boys kissing however, is just not socially accepted.


(disclaimer to the reading public, this is not an attempt to argue that it should be socially acceptable for boys to kiss...)


A Salam

[rgcraig]

Ferd, you have laid it out there just like it is.

It never ceases to amaze me some of these high school girls wake up one day and decide to be with a girl. It's because it's acceptable and the cool thing to do. I would venture to say those that decide to do so are bi-sexual and eventually will give up the girl thing.