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Disaffiliation with the UPC????
If the Pastor decides to disaffilliate his Church from the UPC but does not discuss UPC issues as to why he is disaffilliating is he being honest or dishonest?
It takes either a Board Meeting or General Meeting doesn't it to vote for disaffilliation should he discuss with those the reasons he is disaffilliating? imo...if the church is UPC they have a right to know why he believes they should disaffilliate...especially if he is not the founding pastor but voted in.. what say ye?? |
I say you are right.
If a pastor wants to disaffilliate then he should have a meeting with his people and explain why. He should be willing to answer any questions they may have. If the church don't want to disaffilliate then he puts himself between a rock and a hard place but at least the church gets to make the choice based on what they want. |
I agree all things should be honestly done...
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If the pastor presents all his feelings and says that he wants to disaffilliate with the UPCI and the church feels the same then I would support him. The bottom line is that if it is all done honestly then let them do what they feel they need to do.
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If I understand this correctly if a affliatied church wants to disaffliate ,it has to be voted by the membership of the local church , so a pastor would need to explain to the church why he feels the need to disaffliate.
See one can disaffliate the church ,and lapse on the budget fees and still have a church to pastor. If a man turns in his card,and the church is affliated He is out of a pastorate. |
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Again if this is done honestly ,and the Pastor has the mind of Christ ,hey more power to him.
I know of a UPCI Pastor who started a church in a town ,and explained what the difference between affliation and non-affliation and let the people vote ,they voted not to affliate. The Pastor has been in that town 28 yrs. and the church has never affliated. |
I would think the more info the more honest the man is...I do believe people have a right to know especially if they finacially support the church...
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When people ask me why I am not this or that....well your kin folks are this or that...I just tell them we have never felt to belong and we are building up a national work in Brazil. I would not use the term I left because I am more holy or they are more holy or however we define holy.
We have to know the DIVINE will of God for our lives and those we work with. With that in mind we decide destiny for souls under our care that includes all of us who are leaders have people that are following us. |
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I have had several friends disaffiliate their churches. They must have a business meeting and you must invite an official of the UPC like a presbyter or DS. All those who I know had a official present.
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Our pastor was not for this but the board voted on it and then took it to the church and the chuch voted on it and passed. A meeting must be announced three times and the district informed of the intent of the church and they have the right to send a district representive to the business meeting to present wht they feel the church should remain affiliated. |
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You should read the thread, "How Much Information Should The Saints Expect From Their Pastor?" Just don't mention Coonskinner's name!!
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They determine where the offerings go, even if the people have designated something else as their intent. The authoritarian pastor determines the style of music and worship and demands that everyone follow in lock step. When the pastor is in a good mood everyone is in revival. When the pastor is down, everyone travails. If the pastor is diabetic or bipolar then folks had better be ready for a real roller coaster ride. Whatever the feelings of the pastor (and those family members who have learned how to manipulate him) are then that's what the church is going to be. Since these folks have convinced themselves that God talks to them through their feelings you had better be ready with the coffee, chocolate and pasta. Whatever it takes to keep the pastor's mood swings on the up tick. As time goes on and he ages, his cravings may become even more carnal - but by then it may be too late for some people to dismount the beast they've been riding. |
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Wouldn't all this hinge on the local Church's By-laws?
Most church's do have by-laws don't they? And a board of elders? Unless the church was bought and paid for by the Pastor it's not his to do with as he pleases is it? |
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But the UPC isn't a monolith. It's a complex interaction of many different parts. What was it that made you feel you could not fellowship with the UPC in your area after that youth meeting you mentioned earlier? |
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Our kids go to an ind youth camp in Baton Rouge, LA and I attend camp meeting at North Little Rock. We don't use the UPC camps. |
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