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Old 08-04-2010, 11:40 AM
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Re: What Do you guys think of this?

Based on what Jermyn said, it could be prejudice but not necessarily racism?
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Old 08-04-2010, 11:53 AM
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Based on what Jermyn said, it could be prejudice but not necessarily racism?
If that is where one were to base their thoughts.
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Old 08-04-2010, 12:07 PM
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If that is where one were to base their thoughts.
Maybe if the young man was wearing a suit and tie?
Maybe it wasn't his skin color but just the way he was dressed and the way he talked. That's not racism but prejudiced. Isn't a prejudice a predisposition to view certain aspects of a person in a certain way?
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Old 08-04-2010, 12:43 PM
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Maybe if the young man was wearing a suit and tie?
Maybe it wasn't his skin color but just the way he was dressed and the way he talked. That's not racism but prejudiced. Isn't a prejudice a predisposition to view certain aspects of a person in a certain way?
I would only consider it prejudice if he viewed him that way before he made the remark about money. After the remark about money, I'd just consider it fear.
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Old 08-04-2010, 12:44 PM
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Bedroom door?

A deadbolt on your bedroom door is a bit extreme not matter who or what was said.
Unless it's a boarding house or something similar. If the rest of the house is a bit open to the public, then a lock on the bedroom door would be reasonable.
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Old 08-06-2010, 09:22 AM
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Per JD's definition I have done all sorts of prejudice things.

I locked my doors & rolled my windows up when driving through downtown houston after midnight.

I locked my doors each day when parking at work in Houston but did not do so back in my small town when I got back home.

Who knew these were evil things.
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Not all prejudice is evil.


God gave us the ability to be prejudiced and it is, in part, how humans rationalize life and experiences.


I am prejudiced against japanese women in that I don't usually find them attractive.

I am prejudiced against jw's and will usually not do much to help them-- nothng to harm them, mind you. Same with mormons.

In combat, I was prejudiced and will be again, when in that situation again.

Sometimes prejudice is necesary for survival.
Sometimes prejudice is just plain wise.

Sometimes prejudice is evil and is a reflection of hatred or, too often a skewed view of reality.

The way Prax presented his experience smacks of evil.
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Old 08-06-2010, 09:24 AM
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My son has a friend who tends to be a wild child, he is allowed to come to our house, but my son is not allowed to spend time at his (parents are a little too free with what they allow). One day the kid showed up at our door with some other friends who went on about our PS3, and our TV, after I fed them, they left. I have to admit that I made sure and locked the doors after that.
BTW the kids were white. Just a thought

From what I know of you and your husband, I would not expect there to be a racially prejudiced bone in your bodies! Neither did you two strike me as people who would even tolerate it.
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Old 08-06-2010, 09:47 AM
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Re: What Do you guys think of this?

Prax,

How was he dressed? baggy pants or wot? I Usually avoid dudes in baggy pants as if they had the leprosy. Doesn't matter their skin color.
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Old 08-06-2010, 09:49 AM
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I think if it had been a young white guy, a stranger, and he looked around and made the comment about money - I think your landlord would have been just as nervous.
I highly agree with this statement.
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Old 08-06-2010, 09:53 AM
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Some folks steal just to be stealing. My son has had money go missing from his bedroom from church friends. When it comes to money and things, some folks just can't be trusted. The comment would have made me nervous also. My mom just had $50 taken from her purse in her house with only family and friends coming in and out. They now lock their bedroom doors when there are a lot of people over.
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