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Originally Posted by WyoPastor
I have lots of experience with LDS and I can guarantee if they don't join in a few months they will be cut off.
I will also say the have several LDS friends and they are good people, but they are deceived.
As a pastor I have always helped when I can, but if someone always keep coming back I would want to sit down with them and work on a budget. I don't know the full story of these people, but I would not be surprised that they have asked for help before if the pastor wanted to work on a budget.
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I have heard several pastors talk about setting a budget with their saints that are asking for assistance. It is not all purely a budget issue. These people that are getting help have literally 2 bills outside of their rent and bills tied to the home like utilities, water, trash, etc. They also have 1 vehicle and have insurance for that. Outside of those the 2 debts they obtained years ago and are nearly paid off.
So just trying to set a budget with someone doesn't always help. You nor anyone would expect someone to not pay utilities and be without in order to pay tithe or offering. If a person makes $2,500 net a month and with rent, utilities, insurance, water, gas, trash, and food come to almost a break even point there is not much else to do. I know all of this because my friends and us are so close that we know everything. They have showed us all of their stuff. Also their rent is the lowest for the size home they need to house their family.